I think most people will agree with this statement on what bar a woman must pass in order to be loved by her husband.
Do two things.
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Support your husband generally, aka have his back and generally encourage him rather than undermine him or tear him down
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Respect him, show him respect as a man.
That's it. If a woman does that, 99% of men will love that woman.
It's not exactly a high bar.
Forget love, women don't even pass the bar to be LIKED by men in the modern day. How crazy is that, with a bar that low for unending, soul-mate forever love, modern women are STILL some of the most unlikable and disliked creatures to have ever walked the planet.
No I'm not impossible1, but the old him before dresdonfirebomber wasn't always wrong on everything either.
It’s not “modern”. Women today are the same as women for thousands of years. The difference is today they are given agency without cost. The Maenads didn’t come from nowhere, they were the reflection of actual female nature and were known long before we could write down their nature and name it.
The submissive women came with the convenience of society. If women wanted access to the niceties men built they had to play by the men’s rules. We are told today this was the most evil thing to ever happen but that’s what actual balance in gender roles looks like, women controlled the home and children and men controlled the country and development. Women died in childbirth and men died in war.
Today women live in the societies built by men and believe, somehow, it was actually women and feminism that created all the nice things around them. They work their made up daycare jobs while scorning the men who make their society function. This occurs entirely because the government put guns to men and said you will work and die for the convenience women and turd worlders.
So yes, you are correct that women are generally awful and provide no value relative to a relationship. That’s because they don’t have to anymore, they can get knocked up in a bar bathroom and have a government husband the rest of their life.
Agreed, as u/throwawayaccount2037 said, the Bible spoke about women's nature that unfortunately a lot of the church has ignored, rather adopting the liberal culture view of the sexes.
Society was always meant to keep the worst elements of human nature at bay.
Women are more easily decieved, more emotional, and less principled and typically need a moral man to lead. Without boundaries men will also eventually end up being immoral and decadent, like with Romans, a pagan society, what happens when they reject God, but women for some reason are more prone towards an accelerationist self-destruction and even non-Christian societies where the men are holding the reigns back a bit and creating a bit more traditional society, the society at least functions better and has more lawfulness than a society where women have no reigns on them.
I agree with you on the why. Women are like a kid in a candy store. Society is supposed to say "no, you can't eat only candy"
When society says "go eat all the candy you want" suddenly everyone's got cavities and their teeth are falling out and are looking for someone to blame. "Well maybe if men allowed us to eat even more candy our problems would be fixed"
No, sweetheart, you have to put down the candy bar and start brushing your teeth. Women are averse to personal responsibilty so society needs to act as the responsibilty enforcers for women. Whoever were the ones that were foolish enough to take down that enforcement deserves to get more than a slap in the face.
And then you have all the tradcons coming in and wagging their finger at men for not stopping the women from eating the candy, meanwhile the men are gagged and hogtied over a firepit so what the fuck were they supposed to do?
Most modern tradcons are Zionists larping as tradcons. They dont actually care about the white family or american society, they just know pandering to women is how you get votes.
Bingo!