This one is really telling. I read this being so low for men because men as a whole don't even have to think about it. woman, on the other hand, can't stop thinking about their emotions.
Women, for generations, have been sold the idea that happiness, anxiety, sadness are all ways you live instead of emotional states that fade on their own. So instead they obsess over them, using it as a constant justification.
She "isn't happy" so she must blow up her relationship. She is "anxious" so she can't do normal human functions. And these things must be fixed instead of simply waited out or allowed to naturally run their course. So when they say "emotional stability" they are speaking of a magical place where they are just happy and stress free all the time. With a perfect family, but also a lot of money, and a job with no required hours quilting.
And because they are allergic to accountability, they live in the External Loci mindset of all things being some external forces acting upon her. So its also society/government/men's responsibility to create this world for her.
160,000 years of getting passed around tribe-to-tribe made women the way they are. It's evolution. No amount of feel-good Current Yearisms is going to change that most basic of firmware.
Well that's why it works so easily on them, its a natural urge. But they need to be sold the idea of giving in completely to it, else even the minorest of parenting and social cues will curb a lot of it.
The same way guys have a lot of urges towards violence and sexual forwardness, but only the niggerest and other browns were convinced to simply not hold back on their every hedonistic stray thought. Mixed with some genetic predisposition on that one.
This one is really telling. I read this being so low for men because men as a whole don't even have to think about it. woman, on the other hand, can't stop thinking about their emotions.
Women, for generations, have been sold the idea that happiness, anxiety, sadness are all ways you live instead of emotional states that fade on their own. So instead they obsess over them, using it as a constant justification.
She "isn't happy" so she must blow up her relationship. She is "anxious" so she can't do normal human functions. And these things must be fixed instead of simply waited out or allowed to naturally run their course. So when they say "emotional stability" they are speaking of a magical place where they are just happy and stress free all the time. With a perfect family, but also a lot of money, and a job with no required hours quilting.
And because they are allergic to accountability, they live in the External Loci mindset of all things being some external forces acting upon her. So its also society/government/men's responsibility to create this world for her.
I think all this is just a symptom of women being more hormonal than men. it's all downstream from biology.
160,000 years of getting passed around tribe-to-tribe made women the way they are. It's evolution. No amount of feel-good Current Yearisms is going to change that most basic of firmware.
Well that's why it works so easily on them, its a natural urge. But they need to be sold the idea of giving in completely to it, else even the minorest of parenting and social cues will curb a lot of it.
The same way guys have a lot of urges towards violence and sexual forwardness, but only the niggerest and other browns were convinced to simply not hold back on their every hedonistic stray thought. Mixed with some genetic predisposition on that one.
For men we have to practice self control as we are leaders and examples for those around us. This includes emotional control.
Children have to learn this, and it doesn’t appear women are capable of it.