Right before making this post I deleted the apps while laughing. I’ve always had better luck irl. Also, I see the same local women on the dating apps year after year. A lot of times we match but nothing happens. Probably for the better because I can only think “how many dicks have you taken just from this app in the past 5 years” 🤮
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Online dating gives women 100% of all the power. They know you know that they have 100 dudes in their inbox and talking to them on the apps is like pulling teeth.
It’s not even just dating anymore. You’re competing with the whole world for everything these days, and no matter how good you are there’s always someone who’s willing to be cheaper.
It's why it's harder to hold onto a relationship with a modern woman. Every time they whip out the phone, even at a date you're paying for (as rude as that is, imo), it's the equivalent of her being at a club and letting random men run game on her. A lot of these women don't even disable their dating profiles when in relationships (just to see).
Actually, what's worse is that a lot of dating apps supposedly have some really fucky gamed algorithms that penalize peoples' matching chances if they're inactive from the app for any long stretches of time. Probably applies to disabling as well.
Not that this is an especially good excuse by any means, but it's a prime example of how absolutely warped and obtuse some things have gotten.
And it's also an area where a "free market" approach is probably not going to do a damn thing, like it is with so many online/digital products and services that are almost entirely designed to gaslight and deceive their customers, and hold them emotionally hostage while exploiting the hell out of them.
How is that bad? there area already more than enough women who won't give me a chance, I don't need ones that aren't even using the site anymore.
It really isn't even the sites that are at fault, the core problem is related to women even being able to have sexual freedom, the sites just allow us to get a better understanding of why they shouldn't be allowed to have it.
A lot? You have this experience?
And who's fault is that?
Well considering the sheer absurdity of your question, I can only guess at what you mean, so I'll have to approach it from a purely logical perspective. The actors involved here are:
The person who created the profile, allowing others to message them seeking sex
The people who send messages seeking sex on dating sites
Now considering that 2) is entirely ignorant of the fact that 1) already has a dedicated partner, I would put the blame fully at 1)'s feet.
Nowhere was it stated that the girl already had a dedicated boyfriend.
Why is it women's fault because they have higher standards than the average guy who will try to seek out anything with a pulse?
It might sound crazy in whatever shithole you crawled out of, but in the civilized world people are expected to be responsible for their own behaviour.
Women shouldn't be permitted to have their insane standards, men's standards have only been driven so low because we have no choice at all, we are forced to scrape the absolute bottom of the barrel for even the hope of getting a woman.
Yeah I'm sorry for trying to get a woman, I should have just accepted death as an incel instead of ever trying.
How about actually addressing the matter and not being passive-aggressive?
Go to the gym. Improve yourself in other ways. Don't be boring. It's not that hard. The most appalling men can get girlfriends.
That may have been enough 40 years ago, but not now.