Right before making this post I deleted the apps while laughing. I’ve always had better luck irl. Also, I see the same local women on the dating apps year after year. A lot of times we match but nothing happens. Probably for the better because I can only think “how many dicks have you taken just from this app in the past 5 years” 🤮
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And who's fault is that?
Well considering the sheer absurdity of your question, I can only guess at what you mean, so I'll have to approach it from a purely logical perspective. The actors involved here are:
The person who created the profile, allowing others to message them seeking sex
The people who send messages seeking sex on dating sites
Now considering that 2) is entirely ignorant of the fact that 1) already has a dedicated partner, I would put the blame fully at 1)'s feet.
Nowhere was it stated that the girl already had a dedicated boyfriend.
Why is it women's fault because they have higher standards than the average guy who will try to seek out anything with a pulse?
It might sound crazy in whatever shithole you crawled out of, but in the civilized world people are expected to be responsible for their own behaviour.
And a 40% obesity rate is civilized? What about government-supported grooming gangs?
Not men apparently, because you're mad at women that they get more matches, and then fabricate a fake story that the woman already had a boyfriend, then take no responsibility at all for his fake stories.
Women shouldn't be permitted to have their insane standards, men's standards have only been driven so low because we have no choice at all, we are forced to scrape the absolute bottom of the barrel for even the hope of getting a woman.
Another "America" thing. Because when I look outside, I don't see "insane standards", I see low standards.
Yeah I'm sorry for trying to get a woman, I should have just accepted death as an incel instead of ever trying.
How about actually addressing the matter and not being passive-aggressive?
Go to the gym. Improve yourself in other ways. Don't be boring. It's not that hard. The most appalling men can get girlfriends.
That may have been enough 40 years ago, but not now.
Enough 40 years ago? It wasn't necessary. It's not even necessary today. I see very few men who are in shape, or who are smart, or who have anything going for them. None of them have any trouble getting a girl (better than they are but obviously not 10/10 supermodels).
Also, you're not confirming that you have done this. Are you simply not doing anything for yourself with the exuse that "it's not enough anyway", as if you shouldn't do it if it only benefited yourself?