According to Anderson, that's actually code for: "I'm not attracted to you, but you're my friend and I don't want to hurt your feelings."
Which itself is actually code for "I'm not attracted to you, but you have resources and utility I can extract from you for my benefit, and I don't want to lose access to that just yet by blowing you off"
That's my point though. This article is speaking to those who haven't figured it out yet because they've rarely, if ever, experienced it yet. Or the exceptionally slow, who do actually exist.
I have the same opinion about all those "based" japanese games with hypersexualized female protagonists... that are all designed by some woman. I'd rather leer at a sexy bitch designed by a man, according to his own fantasies, rather than something that a woman considers appropriate for men's consumption.
This is the kind of opinion I read once and think "how delightfully bizarre to have a stance on that" but then it rattles around in my head for a month until I agree with it.
... that's it? Everyone already knew that. That's called the friend zone. This isn't new information at all.
I wonder how much she charges for her dating advice
Which itself is actually code for "I'm not attracted to you, but you have resources and utility I can extract from you for my benefit, and I don't want to lose access to that just yet by blowing you off"
That's the least "code" thing a woman can say. I hope people don't pay this her for her advice.
Ah, but if you say it you're a misogynistic bigot. If a woman says it it's expert advice.
The secret code for a girl not being attracted to you is......
I don't want to ruin our friendship.
That's it. This "dating expert" is revealing that a woman friend zoning you is a secret not interested code. No shit, lady
Be honest, how many of you knew that at 14?
You figure it out after the first time or two it's said to you.
That's my point though. This article is speaking to those who haven't figured it out yet because they've rarely, if ever, experienced it yet. Or the exceptionally slow, who do actually exist.
Hopefully anyone that can read
Asking a woman for dating advice is like the fisherman asking the fish what is the effective way to catch a fish.
I have the same opinion about all those "based" japanese games with hypersexualized female protagonists... that are all designed by some woman. I'd rather leer at a sexy bitch designed by a man, according to his own fantasies, rather than something that a woman considers appropriate for men's consumption.
This is the kind of opinion I read once and think "how delightfully bizarre to have a stance on that" but then it rattles around in my head for a month until I agree with it.
Dating coaches are scam artists. Women today only care about appearance. Following advice of dating coaches and PUAs just makes things worse.