According to Anderson, that's actually code for: "I'm not attracted to you, but you're my friend and I don't want to hurt your feelings."
Which itself is actually code for "I'm not attracted to you, but you have resources and utility I can extract from you for my benefit, and I don't want to lose access to that just yet by blowing you off"
... that's it? Everyone already knew that. That's called the friend zone. This isn't new information at all.
I wonder how much she charges for her dating advice
Which itself is actually code for "I'm not attracted to you, but you have resources and utility I can extract from you for my benefit, and I don't want to lose access to that just yet by blowing you off"
That's the least "code" thing a woman can say. I hope people don't pay this her for her advice.
Ah, but if you say it you're a misogynistic bigot. If a woman says it it's expert advice.