I'm currently single and I keep getting the "what about women in church". In my experience a lot of women in church will date guys who don't go to church and then complain about the fact that their boyfriend/husband doesn't go to church.
I'm reluctant to tie myself to someone whom acts with the emotional maturity of an actual child, yet all of society will automatically defer to should there be a disagreement between the two of us.
That this is yet another factor I have to consider when planning out my future drives me around the fucking bend, at times.
Most churches near me just have old people. The families are usually rare and it's more like middle aged with young kids. Not very much single young person mingling happening.
Mostly married people at mine too but some single women who all have kids. Young people are joining but there are a lot of elderly. Granted I go to the early service
When you can throw the sausage in the hallway it's time to settle down with a man who will care for your kids. Surely nothing can go wrong with this, right?
If only church being soo important to them had any effect on what gives them the nether-tingles (hint: it's not stable, predictable [read: booring], church-going men).
They can't quite put their finger on it, but, like, they're just not feeeling it. That connection, y'know? It's all very rarefied and subtle, not to be compared to the boorish "me want fuck hole" banality which holds sway over every dude-brain. Hence church being so necessary to rectify their base nature, but, geez, where are my tingles?
Mystery abounds. Maybe check the holy book for insights...oh, nevermind, not those parts about submission and obedience. Positively backwards, those are.
Welp, go figure. I'll bet I can tame a rock star, get my tingles and my face covered in frosting with the cake still before my eyes.
I'm currently single and I keep getting the "what about women in church". In my experience a lot of women in church will date guys who don't go to church and then complain about the fact that their boyfriend/husband doesn't go to church.
Anymore, I think a lot of women deserve to get treated like children, and have the same level of rights as them.
I'm reluctant to tie myself to someone whom acts with the emotional maturity of an actual child, yet all of society will automatically defer to should there be a disagreement between the two of us.
That this is yet another factor I have to consider when planning out my future drives me around the fucking bend, at times.
Most churches near me just have old people. The families are usually rare and it's more like middle aged with young kids. Not very much single young person mingling happening.
Mostly married people at mine too but some single women who all have kids. Young people are joining but there are a lot of elderly. Granted I go to the early service
The single mother in church plague is wayyy too common. They know it’s a place to find a beta buck, which is why they go.
There are a few of those at my church. Unfortunately I’ve been single for a while that I can look past some things but you make a great point.
When you can throw the sausage in the hallway it's time to settle down with a man who will care for your kids. Surely nothing can go wrong with this, right?
If only church being soo important to them had any effect on what gives them the nether-tingles (hint: it's not stable, predictable [read: booring], church-going men).
They can't quite put their finger on it, but, like, they're just not feeeling it. That connection, y'know? It's all very rarefied and subtle, not to be compared to the boorish "me want fuck hole" banality which holds sway over every dude-brain. Hence church being so necessary to rectify their base nature, but, geez, where are my tingles?
Mystery abounds. Maybe check the holy book for insights...oh, nevermind, not those parts about submission and obedience. Positively backwards, those are.
Welp, go figure. I'll bet I can tame a rock star, get my tingles and my face covered in frosting with the cake still before my eyes.