Like... if he is honest about how he feels about boundaries in a relationship, why is that abusive? As long as she is given those clearly, and she can decide how to proceed, then I see no reason why it would be abuse.
Not saying I agree with him, but that's irrelevant.
But Sarah insisted she didn’t necessarily think her former partner is a “terrible person.”
She wrote: “Someone being an emotionally abusive partner doesn’t mean they’re a terrible person (often stems from their own trauma)
“At the same time, it doesn’t mean it’s OK.(sic)”
This is the abusive part. Abusing your position as a former fuck buddy of a celebrity to push your name into the media and hurt them, all while you try to take the high road.
You'd be surprised how dumb modern women can be about relationship boundaries. I've seen married women with kids just wearing yoga pants so thin you can can very clearly see the pantylines. The husband just goes along with it and this is in a supposed conservative asian country. Its much worse in the west
Some really are NPCs who can't objectively gauge whether a certain action is objectionable. They observe too-tight yoga pants becoming mainstream and add it to their wardrobe, as popularity is their only barometer.
A continuation of baseline behavior is consciously seeing how a woman reacts to reasonable and unreasonable feedback. If she's swallowed the propaganda that conflicting preferences are "controlling behaviors", just walk out before any argument brews. If she's an emotionally tangled people pleaser, she's not contributing to the relationship and is just as bad as the "modern woman".
Woe to any man who doesn't figure this shit out past 25 years of age.
Remember that while 14 yr olds can consent to puberty blockers and double mastectomies, 22 yr olds simply lack the maturity & can't consent to dating a 48 yr old.
if he is honest about how he feels about boundaries in a relationship, why is that abusive?
He's a man.
That is the one and only reason.
If he hung out with a female friend, and his girlfriend got jealous and screamed insults, threw things at him, and keyed his car, that would be him being abusive too.
Like... if he is honest about how he feels about boundaries in a relationship, why is that abusive? As long as she is given those clearly, and she can decide how to proceed, then I see no reason why it would be abuse.
Not saying I agree with him, but that's irrelevant.
This is the abusive part. Abusing your position as a former fuck buddy of a celebrity to push your name into the media and hurt them, all while you try to take the high road.
Couldn't have happened to a nicer guy though.
It's always the man's fault.
There is a popular videogame streamer ( Ninja? ) whose wife forbade him to do collabs with women.
He was branded as a misogynist for not letting women ride his success.
His wife didn't forbid it, he deliberately refused to stream with women out of respect for her.
It is his fault for explicitly stating his boundaries and expecting her to abide by them.
She should be so afraid of losing him that she restricts her own actions before they came anywhere near to the edges of his sensibilities.
But that obviously isn't the case.
You'd be surprised how dumb modern women can be about relationship boundaries. I've seen married women with kids just wearing yoga pants so thin you can can very clearly see the pantylines. The husband just goes along with it and this is in a supposed conservative asian country. Its much worse in the west
They aren't dumb, they are attention whores. It is a shit test to see if their current guy is "man enough" to tell her "no".
Some really are NPCs who can't objectively gauge whether a certain action is objectionable. They observe too-tight yoga pants becoming mainstream and add it to their wardrobe, as popularity is their only barometer.
A continuation of baseline behavior is consciously seeing how a woman reacts to reasonable and unreasonable feedback. If she's swallowed the propaganda that conflicting preferences are "controlling behaviors", just walk out before any argument brews. If she's an emotionally tangled people pleaser, she's not contributing to the relationship and is just as bad as the "modern woman".
Woe to any man who doesn't figure this shit out past 25 years of age.
Because by their own logic women are sheep and stupid. If you present something to them they are compelled towards it.
That's why adult women dating old ass Leo aren't a problem, he is the problem by presenting them the opportunity to do so.
Remember that while 14 yr olds can consent to puberty blockers and double mastectomies, 22 yr olds simply lack the maturity & can't consent to dating a 48 yr old.
He's a man.
That is the one and only reason.
If he hung out with a female friend, and his girlfriend got jealous and screamed insults, threw things at him, and keyed his car, that would be him being abusive too.
Because he's a man.