I feel like, as… Uncomfortable as that is, it is somewhat exonerating, in a sense…
Obviously “Ignore”. “Delete”.
But still, what kind of psycho does that..??
Either she’s too stupid to work out I’m the same person (possible), or she’s genuinely that fucking confused/insane…
Her account is under a pseudonym too (mine sort of is), because of course it is…
I just… You hear about shit like this, but you never expect to actually experience it, smdh… 😑
I was specifically told not to contact her again, and then two weeks later, this…
I might not agree with Imp’s general worldview, but fuck this shit is tiring…
I’ve already dropped out for the semester, because I could not handle all the shit that had happened (bereavement, injury, sickness, this)…
If she consciously knows what she is doing, and knows that it’s me, I think that’s pretty morally indefensible, really…
Anyway, some of you predicted she would do something like that, so there you are. 🤷🏻♂️
This. Every action they take may be useful as evidence.
I would be worried it is some absurd logic way of her claiming OP contacted her maliciously.
Report her to the university. Tell them that this only proves your side of the story. That she's stalking you/filing fraudulent complaints. ;')
dis nigga going to school with Rebekah Jones
Ha. Yeah…
Well at least I’ve seen this bitch’s front-on photos, now…
Fuck, no wonder she’s so insecure - she’s like Sia. Face looks like it belongs to an unhealthy 45 year old.
And honestly, from how “locked up” she keeps that sort of information, she could well be…
Eugh…
I ran, I ran so far away…
I'm sorry dude, you're been harassed by a woman who kmows she can use feminist policies to fuck your life up and get attention.
Sorry, no such thing as exonerating. Facts don't matter.
Also, it might not be because she's crazy, she might be trying to get on your list so she can dig up dirt on you. It's not a 'friend request' because she wants to be friends, it's a 'let me spy on you' request.
Yeah but… If she knows it’s me (I’m not 100% confident, but it’s not hard for her to work out), she must realize that I’m not going to accept it, surely..?
So therefore I don’t see how it helps her in any way…
She specifically told a third party to effectively tell me to go and get fucked. It’s not like I’m going to then look at a request from that person and then “Accept” it, I wouldn’t have thought! 😂
You're looking at it backwards.
Why wouldn't she test you? All you have to do is accept it, then...
Bam! You've violated the no-contact AND she gets to cyberstalk you! Win/Win insofar as this sociopath's concerned.
Why would a walking, talking landmine not lob more bombs at you?
I don’t know exactly how crazy the girl is, but I’ve known crazy people who can fuck up other people’s lives and then a week later not understand why they don’t want to hang out anymore. Some people just don’t do a lot of self-reflection, that’s all I can think of to explain it.
Put yourself in other peoples' shoes, but imagine you aren't as keyed in on how some of this stuff works: You're innocent. You might think a girl feels "wronged." She adds you. Maybe you want to explain yourself. It's not out of the question.
Haha call me petty all you want, but my last ex before I met my now-wife dumped me under really awful circumstances (going from a happy relation to overnight deciding she could do better, deciding I wasn’t man enough for her 200-pound self, being told similarly by her friends who hated me). I didn’t hear from her for years until last September when we happened to be in the same Zoom session for a conference in our mutual job field. She sent me a direct message trying to reconnect, and I got the supreme pleasure of ignoring it. She then sent a text to my phone, worded identically to the Zoom DM, and I got to do it again lololololol! I only hope she was looking at my face on the participants window and seeing me doing my best to look absolutely unmoved (when in reality I was laughing on the inside!) All that to say, I know EXACTLY what exactly you mean by feeling “exonerated.” She’s still single by the way, to nobody’s surprise.
Take screen shots first with more evidence before deleting. You never know when you might need it again.
Screenshots can be faked. I'd say archive, but you can't archive sites where you need to sign in to see something, such as a friend request.
I suppose best would be to record the screen (either with OBS or similar, or cellphone camera), show opening browser in incognito, show sign in, show friend request. Don't leave any steps out, since you could also edit it to fake it, so show the whole process in one video. Also take screenshots, though, as they're easier to present to someone, but have the video as backup.
She made you create this thread OP.
What she did was one final taunt. Just one more tiny fuck you as cherry on top.
It's like that ending scene in Iron Man 2 where the Senator deliberetly pricks Stark while handling him a medal.
She successfully got under your skin and if she follows your other socials she may be reading this thread and gloating like a peacock.
sounds to me like you're just as fixated on this chick as she is on you.
ignore and move on. and stop looking for validation on the internet