They're literally not. Women as a group have moved all in on casual sex with the same minority of men until they feel it's advantageous to get married. I would know because I had to reject women who wanted to hookup. It's hard to not have resentment for a society that churns out such behavior. It is actually aggravating to try looking for marriage in your young adulthood and women just want to fuck because of hookup culture. All of the actually good women I know were married young. I'm not saying there are no good women. They are just rare now and usually marry young.

The divide is objectively real because women are so liberal.

The balance is tilted for females. Dick limes up for them, nobody lines up for men.

Women aren't in the same boat. Men say what they want and tell women how to do it. Dont be fat, don't be a whore, dont steal or kill my kids. Women actively interfere in men's financial capability by their voting, their control of education, and their control of HR. Women also reward the exact behavior they complain about which is low commitment men blowing smoke up their ass long enough to get laid and then leave them behind with a bastard.

The average man has 0 power in this arrangement. The average woman could have sex with a randomer to raise the birth rate immediately, and the massive welfare system will support any decision she makes. Women also only vote for policies that facilitate being massive whores. If women wanted adultery laws and mandatory DNA tests we would have them.