If I'm perfectly straight, porn is a MASSIVE problem which has been ignored by far too many for far too long. Frankly, I've actually given it up entirely on my own, including masturbation itself, because I've become so sick of how hollow it all is. That energy is better spent improving oneself, to become a better partner for a future lover.
I'm certainly against straight up censorship (except in straight up illegal content), but the issue absolutely does need to be addressed, because it's been keeping people from seeking each other for far too long. It is not at all normal, or healthy, for society to have so many dedicated singles.
But on the other hand, if no-fap is really needed to get a man to want to date the women around him, that really says something about the quality of women, doesn't it?
I keep hearing from right leaning spaces that you've got to go to church to find a proper wife. Which is sound advice in theory, after all you'd want your future wife to be a pious and morally upstanding woman who hasn't been corrupted by modern society. Who can be a good role model for your kids and isn't a chore to be around, someone who you can build a proper family with.
Except in my local area, all the single woman who go to church are old wine aunts, many of which are divorced.
And the younger ones are those "born again" types who think putting on a sundress and posing with a Bible on social media is somehow going to erase all the years of them whoring around in their 20s. Some of them even have a few kids from their baby daddies who pumped and dumped them.
I get that I can't exactly be picky in this day and age, but come on.
It's not a deal breaker if the soda can has a few dents, or the soda turns out to be flat. But if it's got backwash from five different dudes in it then I'm not paying for it.
That combined with the unprecedented financial and spiritual cost of dating, marriage, divorce, child support, etc.
And even if you survive that, there's basically nothing stopping your kid from being trooned.
The social shackles that curbed negative female behaviors have been removed, and there are basically no immediate and sever consequences for harlotry. By the time women face the consequences for their behavior, it is far too late, and instead of self reflection, they sabotage the next generation, thus perpetuating this cycle.
No it says absolutely nothing about anyone but myself, and that I just don't find any appeal to it anymore. There's no labels involved, or philosophies about tricking yourself into liking real women. Porn is the unnatural element, not women.
Enjoyment is no indicator of what's a good idea or not.
Same here, I gave up porn because of how boring it all got. It just left me feeling like I'd wasted my time and could have been doing literally anything else instead of beating my meat.
Hell, Every porn site could go down right this instant and I wouldn't give two shits about it.
But there's definitely an argument to be made about being careful with what we label "porn", to prevent the term from getting overused like how the left made the word "nazi" meaningless since they started calling everyone to the right of Stalin a nazi.
I just don't want the right to loose the advantage it's got with managing to sway young male voters.
Keeping actual porn away from them is definitely a good thing, but I also don't want a repeat of back when they were calling everything "satanic" and losing the younger people to the left like back in the 80s and 90s.
I also don't want a repeat of back when they were calling everything "satanic" and losing the younger people to the left like back in the 80s and 90s.
That's exactly how I fell off the wagon back when I was a child. Struggling to find a place in a society which had rejected me for entirely circumstantial reasons, but then also being shunned for not fitting in after that fact made it incredibly hard to find any way back in. I'll spare you the details, but the journey to finding a real place in society has been incredibly long and I'm still not quite there yet.
If there's anything I could change about society, it would be to see more charitable individuals getting directly involved in the lives of those kids that don't fit, and not by going through some organization or system. Just seeing more people helping those in their own communities would do wonders to help guide kids like I was back to a better place.
Just to point out how devastating it can be when professionals attempt impersonal interventions: I once attempted to kill myself because I was so distraught about my lack of social skills, and when I expressed to the psychologist who talked to me afterwards that I hated how I struggled to relate to kids my own age, he asked me bluntly if I was trying to tell him that I wanted to have sex with children. That was my introduction to the idea of paedophilia, as a vulnerable child who had just attempted to abandon God's gift. I've had a very hard time trusting anyone with authority after that incident (among several others).
Dude, what kind of mental gymnastics does a supposed trained professional have to go through to hear a kid say he has problems making friends and go "ah yes, you must have a case of the pedophilia". What the fuck man?
Seriously though, I don't really want to go "muh both sides" but the treatment of kids who don't fit in definitely needs some improvement.
On the left, they'll just affirm the kid and encourage them to drink the troonshine or kool gaid. I'm sure we all know how bad that fucks up kids in the long run.
Meanwhile on the right, they've got it slightly better in that tough love, when done right can really help a kid along. I don't have an issue with them being a bit hard on their kids, but the punishments should be appropriate and anything physical beyond a slap to the wrist just seems excessive.
But, I've seen how too much tough love can fuck up kids as much as over coddling them.
I know it's anecdotal, but I have a younger cousin who's mom was one of those bible thumping Christians who unintentionally helped push the youth away from Christianity. She wasn't just passionate about it, she was a full on nutjob.
To give you an idea of how crazy she was, she once chewed me out at a family gathering all because my cousin tried to borrow one of my Narnia books. This was during the 90s back when they were calling Harry Potter "satanic witchcraft" so she probably thought Narnia was something similar.
Anyway, that cousin of mine went the fag route a few years back. Full on marching at pride parades in a crop top levels of faggotry. I haven't been able to get in touch with him in awhile.
Now I knew the guy when we were kids, he was a bit quiet but didn't really seem all that weird back in the day. So seeing him pull that hard of a 180 definitely made me a bit sad considering how normal he used to be.
Collective shout can bitch all it wants, payment processors are the real problem here. Let the fucking bitches whine and complain to the wind, but fuck off and die if you think you can tell me what legal things I spend my money on. And no, it's not about the porn so fuck off with that argument you puritan fuckwaffles.
True, trump should just raid the big 4 already for treason and nationalize their infrastructure into an open interbank network, which will make it so banks will run their own credit cards and thus allow people to hop banks when one fucks with them.
This shift enforces stricter content policies, aiming to protect women from harmful media while sparking debate on censorship and platform responsibility.
We have to protect the women. But remember women can do anything a man can do...except protect themselves from "harmful" media
If I'm perfectly straight, porn is a MASSIVE problem which has been ignored by far too many for far too long. Frankly, I've actually given it up entirely on my own, including masturbation itself, because I've become so sick of how hollow it all is. That energy is better spent improving oneself, to become a better partner for a future lover.
I'm certainly against straight up censorship (except in straight up illegal content), but the issue absolutely does need to be addressed, because it's been keeping people from seeking each other for far too long. It is not at all normal, or healthy, for society to have so many dedicated singles.
Congrats on making the effort towards chastity.
But on the other hand, if no-fap is really needed to get a man to want to date the women around him, that really says something about the quality of women, doesn't it?
I think it depends on where you live too.
I keep hearing from right leaning spaces that you've got to go to church to find a proper wife. Which is sound advice in theory, after all you'd want your future wife to be a pious and morally upstanding woman who hasn't been corrupted by modern society. Who can be a good role model for your kids and isn't a chore to be around, someone who you can build a proper family with.
Except in my local area, all the single woman who go to church are old wine aunts, many of which are divorced.
And the younger ones are those "born again" types who think putting on a sundress and posing with a Bible on social media is somehow going to erase all the years of them whoring around in their 20s. Some of them even have a few kids from their baby daddies who pumped and dumped them.
I get that I can't exactly be picky in this day and age, but come on.
It's not a deal breaker if the soda can has a few dents, or the soda turns out to be flat. But if it's got backwash from five different dudes in it then I'm not paying for it.
That combined with the unprecedented financial and spiritual cost of dating, marriage, divorce, child support, etc.
And even if you survive that, there's basically nothing stopping your kid from being trooned.
The social shackles that curbed negative female behaviors have been removed, and there are basically no immediate and sever consequences for harlotry. By the time women face the consequences for their behavior, it is far too late, and instead of self reflection, they sabotage the next generation, thus perpetuating this cycle.
No it says absolutely nothing about anyone but myself, and that I just don't find any appeal to it anymore. There's no labels involved, or philosophies about tricking yourself into liking real women. Porn is the unnatural element, not women.
Enjoyment is no indicator of what's a good idea or not.
Same here, I gave up porn because of how boring it all got. It just left me feeling like I'd wasted my time and could have been doing literally anything else instead of beating my meat.
Hell, Every porn site could go down right this instant and I wouldn't give two shits about it.
But there's definitely an argument to be made about being careful with what we label "porn", to prevent the term from getting overused like how the left made the word "nazi" meaningless since they started calling everyone to the right of Stalin a nazi.
I just don't want the right to loose the advantage it's got with managing to sway young male voters.
Keeping actual porn away from them is definitely a good thing, but I also don't want a repeat of back when they were calling everything "satanic" and losing the younger people to the left like back in the 80s and 90s.
That's exactly how I fell off the wagon back when I was a child. Struggling to find a place in a society which had rejected me for entirely circumstantial reasons, but then also being shunned for not fitting in after that fact made it incredibly hard to find any way back in. I'll spare you the details, but the journey to finding a real place in society has been incredibly long and I'm still not quite there yet.
If there's anything I could change about society, it would be to see more charitable individuals getting directly involved in the lives of those kids that don't fit, and not by going through some organization or system. Just seeing more people helping those in their own communities would do wonders to help guide kids like I was back to a better place.
Just to point out how devastating it can be when professionals attempt impersonal interventions: I once attempted to kill myself because I was so distraught about my lack of social skills, and when I expressed to the psychologist who talked to me afterwards that I hated how I struggled to relate to kids my own age, he asked me bluntly if I was trying to tell him that I wanted to have sex with children. That was my introduction to the idea of paedophilia, as a vulnerable child who had just attempted to abandon God's gift. I've had a very hard time trusting anyone with authority after that incident (among several others).
Dude, what kind of mental gymnastics does a supposed trained professional have to go through to hear a kid say he has problems making friends and go "ah yes, you must have a case of the pedophilia". What the fuck man?
Seriously though, I don't really want to go "muh both sides" but the treatment of kids who don't fit in definitely needs some improvement.
On the left, they'll just affirm the kid and encourage them to drink the troonshine or kool gaid. I'm sure we all know how bad that fucks up kids in the long run.
Meanwhile on the right, they've got it slightly better in that tough love, when done right can really help a kid along. I don't have an issue with them being a bit hard on their kids, but the punishments should be appropriate and anything physical beyond a slap to the wrist just seems excessive.
But, I've seen how too much tough love can fuck up kids as much as over coddling them.
I know it's anecdotal, but I have a younger cousin who's mom was one of those bible thumping Christians who unintentionally helped push the youth away from Christianity. She wasn't just passionate about it, she was a full on nutjob.
To give you an idea of how crazy she was, she once chewed me out at a family gathering all because my cousin tried to borrow one of my Narnia books. This was during the 90s back when they were calling Harry Potter "satanic witchcraft" so she probably thought Narnia was something similar.
Anyway, that cousin of mine went the fag route a few years back. Full on marching at pride parades in a crop top levels of faggotry. I haven't been able to get in touch with him in awhile.
Now I knew the guy when we were kids, he was a bit quiet but didn't really seem all that weird back in the day. So seeing him pull that hard of a 180 definitely made me a bit sad considering how normal he used to be.
Collective shout can bitch all it wants, payment processors are the real problem here. Let the fucking bitches whine and complain to the wind, but fuck off and die if you think you can tell me what legal things I spend my money on. And no, it's not about the porn so fuck off with that argument you puritan fuckwaffles.
True, trump should just raid the big 4 already for treason and nationalize their infrastructure into an open interbank network, which will make it so banks will run their own credit cards and thus allow people to hop banks when one fucks with them.
We have to protect the women. But remember women can do anything a man can do...except protect themselves from "harmful" media