But on the other hand, if no-fap is really needed to get a man to want to date the women around him, that really says something about the quality of women, doesn't it?
I keep hearing from right leaning spaces that you've got to go to church to find a proper wife. Which is sound advice in theory, after all you'd want your future wife to be a pious and morally upstanding woman who hasn't been corrupted by modern society. Who can be a good role model for your kids and isn't a chore to be around, someone who you can build a proper family with.
Except in my local area, all the single woman who go to church are old wine aunts, many of which are divorced.
And the younger ones are those "born again" types who think putting on a sundress and posing with a Bible on social media is somehow going to erase all the years of them whoring around in their 20s. Some of them even have a few kids from their baby daddies who pumped and dumped them.
I get that I can't exactly be picky in this day and age, but come on.
It's not a deal breaker if the soda can has a few dents, or the soda turns out to be flat. But if it's got backwash from five different dudes in it then I'm not paying for it.
That combined with the unprecedented financial and spiritual cost of dating, marriage, divorce, child support, etc.
And even if you survive that, there's basically nothing stopping your kid from being trooned.
The social shackles that curbed negative female behaviors have been removed, and there are basically no immediate and sever consequences for harlotry. By the time women face the consequences for their behavior, it is far too late, and instead of self reflection, they sabotage the next generation, thus perpetuating this cycle.
No it says absolutely nothing about anyone but myself, and that I just don't find any appeal to it anymore. There's no labels involved, or philosophies about tricking yourself into liking real women. Porn is the unnatural element, not women.
Enjoyment is no indicator of what's a good idea or not.
Congrats on making the effort towards chastity.
But on the other hand, if no-fap is really needed to get a man to want to date the women around him, that really says something about the quality of women, doesn't it?
I think it depends on where you live too.
I keep hearing from right leaning spaces that you've got to go to church to find a proper wife. Which is sound advice in theory, after all you'd want your future wife to be a pious and morally upstanding woman who hasn't been corrupted by modern society. Who can be a good role model for your kids and isn't a chore to be around, someone who you can build a proper family with.
Except in my local area, all the single woman who go to church are old wine aunts, many of which are divorced.
And the younger ones are those "born again" types who think putting on a sundress and posing with a Bible on social media is somehow going to erase all the years of them whoring around in their 20s. Some of them even have a few kids from their baby daddies who pumped and dumped them.
I get that I can't exactly be picky in this day and age, but come on.
It's not a deal breaker if the soda can has a few dents, or the soda turns out to be flat. But if it's got backwash from five different dudes in it then I'm not paying for it.
That combined with the unprecedented financial and spiritual cost of dating, marriage, divorce, child support, etc.
And even if you survive that, there's basically nothing stopping your kid from being trooned.
The social shackles that curbed negative female behaviors have been removed, and there are basically no immediate and sever consequences for harlotry. By the time women face the consequences for their behavior, it is far too late, and instead of self reflection, they sabotage the next generation, thus perpetuating this cycle.
No it says absolutely nothing about anyone but myself, and that I just don't find any appeal to it anymore. There's no labels involved, or philosophies about tricking yourself into liking real women. Porn is the unnatural element, not women.
Enjoyment is no indicator of what's a good idea or not.