This is something I learned the hard way in university. I hoped that I might find a wife there, but what I actually learned was that most 'modern' women are tortorously, achingly dull. Not only that, but they are oblivious to it.
It's like looking at an animal in a cage and thinking 'Doesn't it get bored with this life? Doesn't it yearn for more?', but then you remember that it's not capable of higher thought; boredom doesn't enter into it. These women are literal NPCs.
In some way I'm kind of jealous of them. Not for the money or the lifestyle, but the cheeful, blissful ignorance.
While it may seem like it, their ignorance and simpleness is anything but blissful. They are all dopamine addicts, constantly craving stimuli and building up their tolerance of it to such an extent that they will destroy themselves just to feel things.
Its why so many spend all their freetime doom scrolling social media. Its why they are always buried in smut novels or chasing dick. Its why they build a social circle so massive that their phones never stop buzzing, so much so that they don't even answer most and just enjoy receiving the message regardless of content.
They are dull because their need for this high has become so overpowering they cannot do anything else in life but chase it for the quickest hit possible to stave off the withdrawal. They can't develop a hobby, because that requires investment. They can't commit to a LTR, the high of "new love" fades too quick.
In the same way that you can watch an alcoholic go from the fun guy at the bar to someone who lacks any thoughts beyond getting drunker, long since forgetting he used to get drunk for a purpose, a woman without a constant stream of dopamine hits finds herself getting "depressed" or "anxious." These are the same as that drunk's shakes.
I was once walking a girl from my course home because we lived in generally the same direction and the topic moved onto some kind of hand-eye coordination issue and I brought up the question whether women might be more affected or have it worse.
Retard of a girl literally stopped in her tracks and decided to take umbrage at this until I reiterated the point about sex linked chromosomes and conditions tied to them such as red-green colourblindess and other things.
The fact we were both on a hard bio science course and her first reaction was to take offense just spelled out her priorities.
She wasn't the only one who would ovaryeact like that yet still expected to be treated in a similar way as the guys who generally took far more practical and pragmatic stances in early responses 🙄
One assignment involved doing a video/media piece about some bio topic. One of the girls I was friends with submitted her work and I criticised it for being too quiet. It was a documentary piece of sorts with video while she provided a voiceover, however her own speaking part was far too quiet to hear suitably and while I could make out what was said it was evident that others would have issues.
That was it. That was my feedback/criticism for the whole piece. And it riled up some of the other guys on the course because I was attacking her unfairly.
So simping has long been an issue everywhere because some guys are too hardwired to automatically jump to a lady's defence whenever she faces even expected criticism which is literally par for the [literal] course.
I am married now, to a significantly more interesting woman. But you are correct, women are not men, and understanding that will lead to a much more successful relationship
This is something I learned the hard way in university. I hoped that I might find a wife there, but what I actually learned was that most 'modern' women are tortorously, achingly dull. Not only that, but they are oblivious to it.
It's like looking at an animal in a cage and thinking 'Doesn't it get bored with this life? Doesn't it yearn for more?', but then you remember that it's not capable of higher thought; boredom doesn't enter into it. These women are literal NPCs.
In some way I'm kind of jealous of them. Not for the money or the lifestyle, but the cheeful, blissful ignorance.
While it may seem like it, their ignorance and simpleness is anything but blissful. They are all dopamine addicts, constantly craving stimuli and building up their tolerance of it to such an extent that they will destroy themselves just to feel things.
Its why so many spend all their freetime doom scrolling social media. Its why they are always buried in smut novels or chasing dick. Its why they build a social circle so massive that their phones never stop buzzing, so much so that they don't even answer most and just enjoy receiving the message regardless of content.
They are dull because their need for this high has become so overpowering they cannot do anything else in life but chase it for the quickest hit possible to stave off the withdrawal. They can't develop a hobby, because that requires investment. They can't commit to a LTR, the high of "new love" fades too quick.
In the same way that you can watch an alcoholic go from the fun guy at the bar to someone who lacks any thoughts beyond getting drunker, long since forgetting he used to get drunk for a purpose, a woman without a constant stream of dopamine hits finds herself getting "depressed" or "anxious." These are the same as that drunk's shakes.
I was once walking a girl from my course home because we lived in generally the same direction and the topic moved onto some kind of hand-eye coordination issue and I brought up the question whether women might be more affected or have it worse.
Retard of a girl literally stopped in her tracks and decided to take umbrage at this until I reiterated the point about sex linked chromosomes and conditions tied to them such as red-green colourblindess and other things.
The fact we were both on a hard bio science course and her first reaction was to take offense just spelled out her priorities.
She wasn't the only one who would ovaryeact like that yet still expected to be treated in a similar way as the guys who generally took far more practical and pragmatic stances in early responses 🙄
Another fun story from that course.
One assignment involved doing a video/media piece about some bio topic. One of the girls I was friends with submitted her work and I criticised it for being too quiet. It was a documentary piece of sorts with video while she provided a voiceover, however her own speaking part was far too quiet to hear suitably and while I could make out what was said it was evident that others would have issues.
That was it. That was my feedback/criticism for the whole piece. And it riled up some of the other guys on the course because I was attacking her unfairly.
So simping has long been an issue everywhere because some guys are too hardwired to automatically jump to a lady's defence whenever she faces even expected criticism which is literally par for the [literal] course.
Nice one with the ovaryeact.
Women are not like men. If you are searching for fraternity in your wife you will always be disappointed.
I am married now, to a significantly more interesting woman. But you are correct, women are not men, and understanding that will lead to a much more successful relationship
Congratulations on your marriage