the problem is that I had to grow up without one concurrent, present father in my life while being berated and yelled at by my mom constantly
So like half of the dysfunctional kids in America, except he had a shit ton of money and stability to fall back on from that father regardless. Most of them had zero dad to even meet and a mom on all the drugs possible, so he is doing quite well relatively.
I want to feel for the kid, because that does destroy your world mentally and the money doesn't make all of that go away either. But whining like this says he didn't "become a man" in the slightest because he is playing victim like a teenager still. He isn't mentally stronger, he just broke himself in a way to stabilize.
However, I'm going to guess this will absolutely work for him. Because he is "famous adjacent" so girls will line up to fuck him and justify it with his little emo sad boy nonsense. Literally whining about how awful his dad is while coasting by on his dad's coattails.
I want to feel for the kid, because that does destroy your world mentally and the money doesn't make all of that go away either. But whining like this says he didn't "become a man" in the slightest because he is playing victim like a teenager still.
He is a teenager lol. A new one too, he's 14 years old. I'd say he's acting as I'd expect under the circumstances.
He does have great financial advantages, but he also has to deal with people sending him videos of his dad sucking dicks.
Noted, I thought he was like 22 after hearing about him through Destiny related drama for so long. Should have double checked on that, my bad.
Still, my point remains that he should be taught that he isn't "becoming a man" if he even thinks about posting these kind of whiny rants, but a pathetic faggot just like his father. Like this feels just like the rants Destiny used to post on KIA1 without the dressed up language.
he also has to deal with people sending him videos of his dad sucking dicks.
If you agree with them your dad is a faggot loser, and was an absentee figure, with a laugh that kind of bullying moves on quick. That kind of thing only sticks around if they know you care about your dad and are hurt by his improprieties.
Unless of course everyone knows you only get anywhere because you are still living off daddy's money and using it as your claim to fame. Which he, and everyone around him, knows is the case. So of course it will be made worse.
Still, my point remains that he should be taught that he isn't "becoming a man" if he even thinks about posting these kind of whiny rants, but a pathetic faggot just like his father. Like this feels just like the rants Destiny used to post on KIA1 without the dressed up language.
That's true. Still, who is going to teach him?
If you agree with them your dad is a faggot loser, and was an absentee figure, with a laugh that kind of bullying moves on quick. That kind of thing only sticks around if they know you care about your dad and are hurt by his improprieties.
"You have the genes of a cocksucker" is a different line of attack, but yeah the prescription is ultimately what you said and he'll just have to learn to laugh about his dad being a fag.
Well, I would think step one would be "I hate my dad so much I want to be the opposite of him in any way." That's a self teachable lesson. Instead of following his footsteps seemingly to the T.
"You have the genes of a cocksucker" is a different line of attack
We used to make fun of kids parents who sucked dick, dad or mom, for drugs, because white trash poverty area, as kids and the difference between rolling with it and getting upset about it was night and day in terms of it stopping. Even the big tough guy beating your ass for bringing it up kept it going a lot further than a guy who just rolled off him like water. Agree and amplify, and suddenly no one cares.
That's one of the reasons I feel so opinionated on this, I suppose. Because literally everything he is pissy about is just normal for me and everyone I grew up with. Except we also were one bad day from being homeless and had to assemble toys from scrap metal. So its a whiny privileged kid being big sad, rather than some tragedy.
It was very amusing how he outright admitted that he didn't agree with any of us on any of our points, but thought we would care about the ethics of his dick pic being used to harass him and would support him on that on principle.
What? His dad is an open bisexual cuck race traitor socialist low life and you're calling a 14 year old out? Just shut the fuck up and stop. You sound jealous that he might have a bit of money and attention from his loser dads situation.
Oh noooo, his dad is a degenerate loser. Surely he is the first ever to suffer that fate! He must now whine to the internet about his miserable fate like he is living in a true hell that can never be escaped from.
I was corrected further down that he was 14, having mistakenly assumed he was older. So my position changed from "grow up" to "stop acting exactly like your dad if you hate him so much."
I'm sure performative empathy and telling him how his life is so bad is so much more helpful. It certainly won't lock him into a cycle of self loathing and never being able to move on.
I don't know anything of the situation but this seems more like a healthy calling-out of bad behavior. We need to shame more horrible parents and people, not complain about their grown kids complaining.
I don’t have any actual friends, only 2, I don’t have any plan for my life, and I don’t care, I just don’t care about anything anymore
These are not things that he can just throw off any responsibility for. Sure his parent's failure heavily contributed to it ending up being on his shoulders instead of having support and help to do so, but at the end of the day its your life and your decision to live it.
In fact, if he was forced to grow into a man already as much as he claims, he should already be planning his escape and life from it. That is what takes it from "healthily calling out" of his failure parents to wallowing in self pity for ass pats.
As I was corrected after this comment, he is in fact a teenager and not a young adult like I assumed, so its normal behavior. But its also not healthy for his own sake to enable that self-defeating mindset, even if it feels cathartic to see him take down his loser parents.
I agree with you that the self-defeating attitude is a problem he needs to fix in himself. I hope he finds a good role model and develops a more healthy approach to life.
My assumption is he learned the unhealthy tactic of complaining online from watching his parents. That's a big reason I try to shield my kids from much of the internet. My belief is that a parent must try to shield their children from their parents' mistakes as much as possible, while still teaching the children how to avoid making those mistakes.
I hope he finds a good role model and develops a more healthy approach to life.
I do as well. He needs to escape the shadow he is letting himself live under and look out into the real world. Which is hard when you live with that kind of mother as he describes her, but life dealt him a hard hand. Its either play or fold, no matter how injust that is.
My assumption is he learned the unhealthy tactic of complaining online from watching his parents
He has been streaming for at least a few years now. Meaning he is already learning those unhealthy parasocial behaviors that even adult streamers fall into. Which should probably be the first change he makes, to both help himself and sever his father's shadow.
My belief is that a parent must try to shield their children from their parents' mistakes as much as possible, while still teaching the children how to avoid making those mistakes.
Agree entirely. Unfortunately it seems in this case the egotistical Destiny's influence is to make him a complete copy of him. Which is awful on many levels.
Money doesn't solve abuse. Money doesn't teach people financial, emotional, or moral responsibility. You can't just take a baby and throw money at it.
He's still just an abused kid who got fucked up before he had a chance. Even "rich" parents are wrong to abuse their children.
Your stupid argument is the same shit that woke retards use on white kids or first worlders even when they're poor. "You might be homeless, but you are homeless in [insert rich country] with [welfare] and [bullshit] therefore your complaints are illegitimate!!!!"
He might be a little shit, but if he is, they made him into one. Destiny and the whore mother are very clearly the villains in this story.
Destiny and the whore mother are very clearly the villains in this story.
Said nothing to the contrary. I don't think it even needs to be said because of how obvious Destiny and any of his whores are to be the villains in any situation they exist in.
He's still just an abused kid who got fucked up before he had a chance
And he is spiralling into the same trap abused kids go into. Nothing is my fault, muh trauma, my parents sucked, and my situation is so special you'd never understand so how dare you criticize me.
So like half of the dysfunctional kids in America, except he had a shit ton of money and stability to fall back on from that father regardless. Most of them had zero dad to even meet and a mom on all the drugs possible, so he is doing quite well relatively.
I want to feel for the kid, because that does destroy your world mentally and the money doesn't make all of that go away either. But whining like this says he didn't "become a man" in the slightest because he is playing victim like a teenager still. He isn't mentally stronger, he just broke himself in a way to stabilize.
However, I'm going to guess this will absolutely work for him. Because he is "famous adjacent" so girls will line up to fuck him and justify it with his little emo sad boy nonsense. Literally whining about how awful his dad is while coasting by on his dad's coattails.
He is a teenager lol. A new one too, he's 14 years old. I'd say he's acting as I'd expect under the circumstances.
He does have great financial advantages, but he also has to deal with people sending him videos of his dad sucking dicks.
Noted, I thought he was like 22 after hearing about him through Destiny related drama for so long. Should have double checked on that, my bad.
Still, my point remains that he should be taught that he isn't "becoming a man" if he even thinks about posting these kind of whiny rants, but a pathetic faggot just like his father. Like this feels just like the rants Destiny used to post on KIA1 without the dressed up language.
If you agree with them your dad is a faggot loser, and was an absentee figure, with a laugh that kind of bullying moves on quick. That kind of thing only sticks around if they know you care about your dad and are hurt by his improprieties.
Unless of course everyone knows you only get anywhere because you are still living off daddy's money and using it as your claim to fame. Which he, and everyone around him, knows is the case. So of course it will be made worse.
That's true. Still, who is going to teach him?
"You have the genes of a cocksucker" is a different line of attack, but yeah the prescription is ultimately what you said and he'll just have to learn to laugh about his dad being a fag.
Well, I would think step one would be "I hate my dad so much I want to be the opposite of him in any way." That's a self teachable lesson. Instead of following his footsteps seemingly to the T.
We used to make fun of kids parents who sucked dick, dad or mom, for drugs, because white trash poverty area, as kids and the difference between rolling with it and getting upset about it was night and day in terms of it stopping. Even the big tough guy beating your ass for bringing it up kept it going a lot further than a guy who just rolled off him like water. Agree and amplify, and suddenly no one cares.
That's one of the reasons I feel so opinionated on this, I suppose. Because literally everything he is pissy about is just normal for me and everyone I grew up with. Except we also were one bad day from being homeless and had to assemble toys from scrap metal. So its a whiny privileged kid being big sad, rather than some tragedy.
I forgot that faggot would be on KiA lol. The kid needs none neo nazi men to mentor him or he's fucked
It was very amusing how he outright admitted that he didn't agree with any of us on any of our points, but thought we would care about the ethics of his dick pic being used to harass him and would support him on that on principle.
A real mask off moment of the liberal mind.
What? His dad is an open bisexual cuck race traitor socialist low life and you're calling a 14 year old out? Just shut the fuck up and stop. You sound jealous that he might have a bit of money and attention from his loser dads situation.
Oh noooo, his dad is a degenerate loser. Surely he is the first ever to suffer that fate! He must now whine to the internet about his miserable fate like he is living in a true hell that can never be escaped from.
I was corrected further down that he was 14, having mistakenly assumed he was older. So my position changed from "grow up" to "stop acting exactly like your dad if you hate him so much."
This is why nobody likes older people. You can't complain about anything without them crying about how much harder they had it.
I'm sure performative empathy and telling him how his life is so bad is so much more helpful. It certainly won't lock him into a cycle of self loathing and never being able to move on.
I don't know anything of the situation but this seems more like a healthy calling-out of bad behavior. We need to shame more horrible parents and people, not complain about their grown kids complaining.
I'd agree with you if not for this bit:
These are not things that he can just throw off any responsibility for. Sure his parent's failure heavily contributed to it ending up being on his shoulders instead of having support and help to do so, but at the end of the day its your life and your decision to live it.
In fact, if he was forced to grow into a man already as much as he claims, he should already be planning his escape and life from it. That is what takes it from "healthily calling out" of his failure parents to wallowing in self pity for ass pats.
As I was corrected after this comment, he is in fact a teenager and not a young adult like I assumed, so its normal behavior. But its also not healthy for his own sake to enable that self-defeating mindset, even if it feels cathartic to see him take down his loser parents.
I agree with you that the self-defeating attitude is a problem he needs to fix in himself. I hope he finds a good role model and develops a more healthy approach to life.
My assumption is he learned the unhealthy tactic of complaining online from watching his parents. That's a big reason I try to shield my kids from much of the internet. My belief is that a parent must try to shield their children from their parents' mistakes as much as possible, while still teaching the children how to avoid making those mistakes.
I do as well. He needs to escape the shadow he is letting himself live under and look out into the real world. Which is hard when you live with that kind of mother as he describes her, but life dealt him a hard hand. Its either play or fold, no matter how injust that is.
He has been streaming for at least a few years now. Meaning he is already learning those unhealthy parasocial behaviors that even adult streamers fall into. Which should probably be the first change he makes, to both help himself and sever his father's shadow.
Agree entirely. Unfortunately it seems in this case the egotistical Destiny's influence is to make him a complete copy of him. Which is awful on many levels.
Money doesn't solve abuse. Money doesn't teach people financial, emotional, or moral responsibility. You can't just take a baby and throw money at it.
He's still just an abused kid who got fucked up before he had a chance. Even "rich" parents are wrong to abuse their children.
Your stupid argument is the same shit that woke retards use on white kids or first worlders even when they're poor. "You might be homeless, but you are homeless in [insert rich country] with [welfare] and [bullshit] therefore your complaints are illegitimate!!!!"
He might be a little shit, but if he is, they made him into one. Destiny and the whore mother are very clearly the villains in this story.
Said nothing to the contrary. I don't think it even needs to be said because of how obvious Destiny and any of his whores are to be the villains in any situation they exist in.
And he is spiralling into the same trap abused kids go into. Nothing is my fault, muh trauma, my parents sucked, and my situation is so special you'd never understand so how dare you criticize me.
No amount of money in the world can replace a pair of loving, supportive parents.