Is this fellow trying to blame being a virgin on porn? lol?
I mean, I get ops point of view, I think couples would be closer if porn wasnt a thing, for sure, but at the same time people have such unrealistic expectations, on both sides. Sex should be a close thing where both parties are comfortable with each other. Its not some special super rare thing, its literally built into us to procreate.
You know I was thankful for porn the years I didnt have a g/f, never occurred to blame my relationship problems on porn.
Half my problem was just not knowing what the fuck was going on, which is I imagine is what this person in ops video is dealing with. With shit like tinder, it must be hard as fuck these days to find anything lasting or meaning. That shit will create more fucked up dopamine cycles than just porn would.
But if were going down the "porn is evil" route. I just had to point out that people who say this dont really know about human history.
How old do you think something like the kama sutra is? About 2500 years old I guess.
They were building temples in india with dicks/vaginas all over them.
However, the best-preserved and most graphic example of erotic temple art can be found in the small town of Khajuraho in the central Indian state of Madhya Pradesh. Its elegantly carved Hindu temples were declared a Unesco World Heritage site in 1986. Built by the Chandela dynasty between 950 and 1050, only 22 of the 85 original temples remain.
When I entered the 6sqkm site late one winter afternoon, the sandstone glowed a burnished gold. Local women carried fresh flowers and incense sticks for their prayers, while visitors perambulated the outer corridors, gawking at the profuse and intricate sculptures that covered every inch of the walls. There were images of gods and goddesses, warriors and musicians, animals and birds. It could have been a scene from any temple in India.
Many of these carvings were of an intensely erotic nature, featuring men, women and animals.
But on closer inspection, many of these carvings were of an intensely erotic nature, featuring men, women and animals. There were depictions of threesomes, orgies and bestiality. Although I knew what to expect, I was still taken aback by shapely maidens and virile men contorting their bodies in impossible sexual positions, right next to sculptures of divine beings smiling blissfully at the devout. Although a few stones were chipped and several limbs broken, the carvings were incredibly pristine, considering that the temples are more than 1,000 years old.
Dudes have been tying stones to their dicks for thousands of years lmao.
Attaching weights to the penis in an attempt to gain length is not a new practice. The Sadhus holy men of India and males of the Cholomec tribe in Peru have long used this technique to try to lengthen their penises.
Penis exercise is based on the microtear theory. The idea is that penis weights place tension on the penis, creating microtrauma. As the tissues heal and repair, penile tissue cells multiply and regenerate (hyperplasia), increasing girth and length.
Currently, there is no clinical evidence to indicate that penis weights work, and experts advise that this practice could potentially cause serious damage to the genitals.
Humans are extremely sexual creatures, its kinda unreasonable to expect males, and females to wait for a perfect time just to copulate. I suppose thats the whole reason were capable of masturbating in the first place, like many other mammalian species lmao.
I know, fucking weird ass thought chains sometimes.
That might happen in the UK and still not fix the underlying problem.
I have no doubt in the Labour party's ability to over-govern, get slaughtered in the next general election, and result in a reactionary government that dismantles the censorship state and kicks out all the foreigners.
Ya maybe those men will do something productive, build themselves and their communities, and attain families instead of blowing their motivation and energy on cam whores and only fans sluts.
Its depressing and it depresses these men. It creates more unstable men, disenfranchised men, apathetic men, dissociated men, and weak men that perpetuates a cycle of alienation that is guaranteed to harm the man who uses porn.
This is like a heroin addict saying if he doesn't use he will be angry and cause problems so just give him his cope. And yes, porn is just as poisonous as heroin
Easier said than done when any potential spouse has the institutional power to ruin your life and clean out your bank account.
It's terrible how bad things have gotten, but it's also understandable. Trying to find a good woman to build a family with these days is like playing Russian roulette with your life, reputation and money.
Because even if you do everything right, she can just up and deicide that "things just aren't working out" and ditch you for someone else. It's worse if you're married, because you run the risk of loosing everything you've built up to that point since the courts will almost always side with the woman, regardless of how ridiculous her reasons for leaving you are.
I see men choosing porn over chasing actual women, like a guy choosing to chug down a can of chemical and corn syrup laden soda over a drinking normal bottle of water, because the bottle of regular water is in the middle of a radioactive minefield.
what do we do with these men who simply can't succeed in the dating market and still have those natural innate urges?
That's the neat part. Without the anesthesia of gooning, their anger and frustration will keep building up until they burn this toxic modern society to the ground. Then the survivors can claim a war bride.
There is a massive difference between high speed -4k anything you want to see ever-on demand-vr-ai-rule 34 porn, and a book written about sex positions with cartoon drawings.
The fact you use the kama sutra as cover for modern porn derails your argument and shows you aren't even arguing honestly but are trying to excuse modern porn degeneracy.
Coomers got assmad over this but it's true. It's like comparing the Venus de Milo or any other classical nude to BLACKED or whatever someone's degenerate fetish is. Appreciating the human form is fine. Getting an intentional dopamine overdose and burning out your brain's pleasure reward centers isn't the same ballpark, league, or sport. We're meant to be metered little droplets of it for doing the right things with our lives not turning on a firehose on command.
I agree with the general thrust of what you’re saying, but I would point out that the relatively recent advent of hardcore, HD, internet porn—and access to increasingly specific fetish content in written and drawn form as well—is completely removed from all historical precedent. When someone over a certain age says “we had porn growing up,” they tend to be thinking of a couple Playboys they stashed, maybe one or two videotapes that made the rounds… what their kids, male and female, can access very easily is a hundred different gangbang bukakke videos, or dozens of pieces of erotic fiction about being kidnapped and raped.
Is it necessarily an “oh my god, this is doing unthinkable damage, we need to censor everything everywhere, time to roll out the draconian ID laws” type of crisis? Probably not. But is it just as harmless as crude drawings of dicks and a handful of porno mags? That’s probably not the case either.
Is this fellow trying to blame being a virgin on porn? lol?
I mean, I get ops point of view, I think couples would be closer if porn wasnt a thing, for sure, but at the same time people have such unrealistic expectations, on both sides. Sex should be a close thing where both parties are comfortable with each other. Its not some special super rare thing, its literally built into us to procreate.
You know I was thankful for porn the years I didnt have a g/f, never occurred to blame my relationship problems on porn.
Half my problem was just not knowing what the fuck was going on, which is I imagine is what this person in ops video is dealing with. With shit like tinder, it must be hard as fuck these days to find anything lasting or meaning. That shit will create more fucked up dopamine cycles than just porn would.
But if were going down the "porn is evil" route. I just had to point out that people who say this dont really know about human history.
How old do you think something like the kama sutra is? About 2500 years old I guess.
They were building temples in india with dicks/vaginas all over them.
Dudes have been tying stones to their dicks for thousands of years lmao.
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/penis-weights
Humans are extremely sexual creatures, its kinda unreasonable to expect males, and females to wait for a perfect time just to copulate. I suppose thats the whole reason were capable of masturbating in the first place, like many other mammalian species lmao.
I know, fucking weird ass thought chains sometimes.
Hopefully without the distraction they’ll pick up the swords and axes their forefathers put down and take their country back.
That might happen in the UK and still not fix the underlying problem.
I have no doubt in the Labour party's ability to over-govern, get slaughtered in the next general election, and result in a reactionary government that dismantles the censorship state and kicks out all the foreigners.
BUT THAT WON'T FIX THE UNDERLYING PROBLEM.
Ya maybe those men will do something productive, build themselves and their communities, and attain families instead of blowing their motivation and energy on cam whores and only fans sluts.
Its depressing and it depresses these men. It creates more unstable men, disenfranchised men, apathetic men, dissociated men, and weak men that perpetuates a cycle of alienation that is guaranteed to harm the man who uses porn.
This is like a heroin addict saying if he doesn't use he will be angry and cause problems so just give him his cope. And yes, porn is just as poisonous as heroin
Easier said than done when any potential spouse has the institutional power to ruin your life and clean out your bank account.
It's terrible how bad things have gotten, but it's also understandable. Trying to find a good woman to build a family with these days is like playing Russian roulette with your life, reputation and money.
Because even if you do everything right, she can just up and deicide that "things just aren't working out" and ditch you for someone else. It's worse if you're married, because you run the risk of loosing everything you've built up to that point since the courts will almost always side with the woman, regardless of how ridiculous her reasons for leaving you are.
I see men choosing porn over chasing actual women, like a guy choosing to chug down a can of chemical and corn syrup laden soda over a drinking normal bottle of water, because the bottle of regular water is in the middle of a radioactive minefield.
Its more like instead of wading through shit to find a good woman men are jerking off to pictures of the shit.
That's the neat part. Without the anesthesia of gooning, their anger and frustration will keep building up until they burn this toxic modern society to the ground. Then the survivors can claim a war bride.
Peaceful? Did you skip the bit where I said frustrated men would burn it all down?
There is a massive difference between high speed -4k anything you want to see ever-on demand-vr-ai-rule 34 porn, and a book written about sex positions with cartoon drawings.
The fact you use the kama sutra as cover for modern porn derails your argument and shows you aren't even arguing honestly but are trying to excuse modern porn degeneracy.
Coomers got assmad over this but it's true. It's like comparing the Venus de Milo or any other classical nude to BLACKED or whatever someone's degenerate fetish is. Appreciating the human form is fine. Getting an intentional dopamine overdose and burning out your brain's pleasure reward centers isn't the same ballpark, league, or sport. We're meant to be metered little droplets of it for doing the right things with our lives not turning on a firehose on command.
And yes, I know what my username is.
I agree with the general thrust of what you’re saying, but I would point out that the relatively recent advent of hardcore, HD, internet porn—and access to increasingly specific fetish content in written and drawn form as well—is completely removed from all historical precedent. When someone over a certain age says “we had porn growing up,” they tend to be thinking of a couple Playboys they stashed, maybe one or two videotapes that made the rounds… what their kids, male and female, can access very easily is a hundred different gangbang bukakke videos, or dozens of pieces of erotic fiction about being kidnapped and raped.
Is it necessarily an “oh my god, this is doing unthinkable damage, we need to censor everything everywhere, time to roll out the draconian ID laws” type of crisis? Probably not. But is it just as harmless as crude drawings of dicks and a handful of porno mags? That’s probably not the case either.