Ya maybe those men will do something productive, build themselves and their communities, and attain families instead of blowing their motivation and energy on cam whores and only fans sluts.
Its depressing and it depresses these men. It creates more unstable men, disenfranchised men, apathetic men, dissociated men, and weak men that perpetuates a cycle of alienation that is guaranteed to harm the man who uses porn.
This is like a heroin addict saying if he doesn't use he will be angry and cause problems so just give him his cope. And yes, porn is just as poisonous as heroin
Easier said than done when any potential spouse has the institutional power to ruin your life and clean out your bank account.
It's terrible how bad things have gotten, but it's also understandable. Trying to find a good woman to build a family with these days is like playing Russian roulette with your life, reputation and money.
Because even if you do everything right, she can just up and deicide that "things just aren't working out" and ditch you for someone else. It's worse if you're married, because you run the risk of loosing everything you've built up to that point since the courts will almost always side with the woman, regardless of how ridiculous her reasons for leaving you are.
I see men choosing porn over chasing actual women, like a guy choosing to chug down a can of chemical and corn syrup laden soda over a drinking normal bottle of water, because the bottle of regular water is in the middle of a radioactive minefield.
I assure you the Russo-Ukrainian porn models are a hundredfold more attractive than the average American woman. It may be a fantasy, but it's a good fantasy.
Ya maybe those men will do something productive, build themselves and their communities, and attain families instead of blowing their motivation and energy on cam whores and only fans sluts.
Its depressing and it depresses these men. It creates more unstable men, disenfranchised men, apathetic men, dissociated men, and weak men that perpetuates a cycle of alienation that is guaranteed to harm the man who uses porn.
This is like a heroin addict saying if he doesn't use he will be angry and cause problems so just give him his cope. And yes, porn is just as poisonous as heroin
Easier said than done when any potential spouse has the institutional power to ruin your life and clean out your bank account.
It's terrible how bad things have gotten, but it's also understandable. Trying to find a good woman to build a family with these days is like playing Russian roulette with your life, reputation and money.
Because even if you do everything right, she can just up and deicide that "things just aren't working out" and ditch you for someone else. It's worse if you're married, because you run the risk of loosing everything you've built up to that point since the courts will almost always side with the woman, regardless of how ridiculous her reasons for leaving you are.
I see men choosing porn over chasing actual women, like a guy choosing to chug down a can of chemical and corn syrup laden soda over a drinking normal bottle of water, because the bottle of regular water is in the middle of a radioactive minefield.
Its more like instead of wading through shit to find a good woman men are jerking off to pictures of the shit.
I assure you the Russo-Ukrainian porn models are a hundredfold more attractive than the average American woman. It may be a fantasy, but it's a good fantasy.
Eugh. I doubt some blown out prostitute is actually attractive when you step away from coom brain mode.