My fear with all that would be that it turns into that. It probably starts pretty tame but then increases to keep it novel until you get to shit like swinging and cucking.
Nah, that's not really how it works. Most of that shit comes from porn addiction more than anything else. Actual intimacy simply works differently, and mild BDSM is mostly just "vanilla" (aka normal sex) with small twists and nothing more.
Let me put it like this: Would you say spanking your better half could lead to swinging, or is that a bit of a reach? What about holding their hands above their head so you're in control, does that lead to cucking? No, it's also a reach. This is the kinds of things I'm talking about.
This is about as silly as saying that anything other than missionary leads to adultery or some shit. Slippery slopes are a real thing, but I don't think this is one of them. And if someone were to honestly believe that a bit of rough sex is going to lead to wanting to have sex with other people, I would suggest that thought was already there before the rough sex started, not caused because of it.
My fear with all that would be that it turns into that. It probably starts pretty tame but then increases to keep it novel until you get to shit like swinging and cucking.
Nah, that's not really how it works. Most of that shit comes from porn addiction more than anything else. Actual intimacy simply works differently, and mild BDSM is mostly just "vanilla" (aka normal sex) with small twists and nothing more.
Let me put it like this: Would you say spanking your better half could lead to swinging, or is that a bit of a reach? What about holding their hands above their head so you're in control, does that lead to cucking? No, it's also a reach. This is the kinds of things I'm talking about.
This is about as silly as saying that anything other than missionary leads to adultery or some shit. Slippery slopes are a real thing, but I don't think this is one of them. And if someone were to honestly believe that a bit of rough sex is going to lead to wanting to have sex with other people, I would suggest that thought was already there before the rough sex started, not caused because of it.
Missionary?! Sex?! Inevitably leads to perversion. Chaste abstinence is the only thing that doesn't lead to BDSM scat-adultery!
Missionary isn't so bad. The real problem is having sex while standing up, because it might lead to dancing.
The Baptist in me laughed way too hard at this...
Yeah, but why would you do the things mentioned in your 2nd paragraph?
And yes, they will lead to much more degenerate things but, of course, not for everybody.