The thing is, most of those things will work for most guys. Sure, you'll never become 10/10 Chad who can pull any women. But you'll be able to garner some success with a decent number as long as you aren't incredibly deformed.
The lacking discussion is that most guys who are in the category of needing that advice are mentally unfit to handle the pressures of going through it.
The "just lift" community believes that by doing so you will simply become more confident in yourself both through looking better and the dopamine rush lifting brings, which once again is true most of the time but not a guarantee. And for those it doesn't work for, their mental instability will shine through like a beacon to women.
Someone with an extremely broken mind for whatever reason isn't going to become shredded enough to not give girls "the irk" (go ask the guys on /fit/), and often times that is what needs the most work first.
However, the opposite problem is most guys going into these "Self help" forums are also completely unrealistic. Your comment I think shows it best where a 1/10 wants to become a 10/10, which is a level of optimism that will guarantee failure for anyone. The marketer will of course over sell, but the buyer is responsible for himself.
If a guy doesn't have some level of natural affinity for it, he won't ever reach 10/10 status. But any guy short of the 0.01% of truly deformed or mentally ill monsters can reach some success with those tactics, even that is going from 100/100 rejections to 95/100.
Some irony is that Aydin Paladin is blessed with terrible genetics.
She is cursed with "put the screen down" fugliness.
She definitely has a voice for radio.
I listened to her audio podcast with Spoon for awhile, then was really taken aback when I saw her physical appearance on Lotus Eaters. It was very distracting.
Guess it was an ugly guy who gave her the note. It be cute from a handsome guy. Sorry ugly guy
And with online dating a lot of below average women get a ton of attention. I’m average looking at best so I know what you mean
The thing is, most of those things will work for most guys. Sure, you'll never become 10/10 Chad who can pull any women. But you'll be able to garner some success with a decent number as long as you aren't incredibly deformed.
The lacking discussion is that most guys who are in the category of needing that advice are mentally unfit to handle the pressures of going through it.
The "just lift" community believes that by doing so you will simply become more confident in yourself both through looking better and the dopamine rush lifting brings, which once again is true most of the time but not a guarantee. And for those it doesn't work for, their mental instability will shine through like a beacon to women.
Someone with an extremely broken mind for whatever reason isn't going to become shredded enough to not give girls "the irk" (go ask the guys on /fit/), and often times that is what needs the most work first.
However, the opposite problem is most guys going into these "Self help" forums are also completely unrealistic. Your comment I think shows it best where a 1/10 wants to become a 10/10, which is a level of optimism that will guarantee failure for anyone. The marketer will of course over sell, but the buyer is responsible for himself.
If a guy doesn't have some level of natural affinity for it, he won't ever reach 10/10 status. But any guy short of the 0.01% of truly deformed or mentally ill monsters can reach some success with those tactics, even that is going from 100/100 rejections to 95/100.
Some irony is that Aydin Paladin is blessed with terrible genetics.
She is cursed with "put the screen down" fugliness.
She definitely has a voice for radio.
I listened to her audio podcast with Spoon for awhile, then was really taken aback when I saw her physical appearance on Lotus Eaters. It was very distracting.
I say this with love, as I do enjoy her content.
But damn, girl !
Very true. Why I’m working on losing a lot of weight
I think you're referring to THIS phenomenon.
What I was thinking.