Unfortunately the consequences of 'the greener grass' is being hidden by social media so women aren't as aware of it.
In the past it was WAY more immediate response and not as much 'fame' for being a shitty person. Just look at that recent case of that guy spaying bug spray on Walmart produce for Tiktok videos, our social media in the West ACTIVELY encourages debased and self destructive behaviour and can be argued women fall for this more.
Its not just about social media, its about never being exposed to alternatives to begin with. If every woman in town is happy and coupled, then they don't get inside their own neurotic heads about doing X or Y and those possibly being better.
But if one woman alone isn't, then she will act as a constant temptation for all the rest to join her in rebellion. They might not blow up their lives to do so, but they will still become worse in huffy moods about not being allowed to do what she is doing and missing out. All without ever knowing how miserable that woman's personal life was, and only looking at her party hard lifestyle.
This problem predates social media, which has only made it 999x more widespread. Its why boomers created thousands of "traditions" that are actively draining on the rest of us as a society.
Just look at that recent case of that guy spaying bug spray on Walmart produce for Tiktok videos, our social media in the West ACTIVELY encourages debased and self destructive behaviour and can be argued women fall for this more.
You're not wrong, but Tiktok is not "our" social media. Degeneracy on Tiktok is a weapon that China does not wield against its own population.
Unfortunately the consequences of 'the greener grass' is being hidden by social media so women aren't as aware of it.
In the past it was WAY more immediate response and not as much 'fame' for being a shitty person. Just look at that recent case of that guy spaying bug spray on Walmart produce for Tiktok videos, our social media in the West ACTIVELY encourages debased and self destructive behaviour and can be argued women fall for this more.
Its not just about social media, its about never being exposed to alternatives to begin with. If every woman in town is happy and coupled, then they don't get inside their own neurotic heads about doing X or Y and those possibly being better.
But if one woman alone isn't, then she will act as a constant temptation for all the rest to join her in rebellion. They might not blow up their lives to do so, but they will still become worse in huffy moods about not being allowed to do what she is doing and missing out. All without ever knowing how miserable that woman's personal life was, and only looking at her party hard lifestyle.
This problem predates social media, which has only made it 999x more widespread. Its why boomers created thousands of "traditions" that are actively draining on the rest of us as a society.
You're not wrong, but Tiktok is not "our" social media. Degeneracy on Tiktok is a weapon that China does not wield against its own population.