It's the bad guy allure. Women want to 'convert' a bad guy and draw him into the fold of 'all that is good and holy', but he must do so for her. He must abandon his vices and walk the path of the righteous in order to be with her. She needs to feel special in this process of redemption.
That's why serial killers get so much attention from (delusional and self-important) women. :')
I'm not even sure if it's about the redemption. It's about feeling special. They want them to be a monster. They just want to be the one person they wouldn't kill. They want them to be HER monster.
They don't want to save these guys, that's their "don't judge me society" reasoning.
What they want is their own personal monster. Someone who is bad, rebellious, and bestial to everyone else, but super sweet and loving to her (while also fucking her like only a beast could). She is special to him.
It's the bad guy allure. Women want to 'convert' a bad guy and draw him into the fold of 'all that is good and holy', but he must do so for her. He must abandon his vices and walk the path of the righteous in order to be with her. She needs to feel special in this process of redemption.
That's why serial killers get so much attention from (delusional and self-important) women. :')
I'm not even sure if it's about the redemption. It's about feeling special. They want them to be a monster. They just want to be the one person they wouldn't kill. They want them to be HER monster.
But they also need to redeem them and mainstream them back into society, otherwise the savior component wouldn't work.
They don't want to save these guys, that's their "don't judge me society" reasoning.
What they want is their own personal monster. Someone who is bad, rebellious, and bestial to everyone else, but super sweet and loving to her (while also fucking her like only a beast could). She is special to him.