Hear hear. I'm convinced that the vast majority are simply evil, just like the troons. The real mind fuck is finding the rare one who isn't (unsurprisingly they're always taken) and not allowing your mind to trick you into trying to win the lottery.
I think I have only met two girls that were truly good and decent people worthy of marriage.
Both of them had extremely rare 10/10 personalities, they had no social media and they were also physically attractive(7/10). Of course both of them were already married to decent men.
I think marriage is a scam and I have no plans on ever getting married.
The only exceptions to this rule are if I was marrying one of these two girls I mentioned above.
Both of them had the full package: they had actual critical thinking skills, they knew how to cook and clean, were genuinely caring about other people, have a soft feminine nature, they actually listened more than they talked, were great with kids and also were physically attractive.
I have graduated from college, went to grad school and also worked in academia and worked in private industry for years and have met thousands of women and I can say only two were actually worthy of marrying.
The women who are truly good are usually the ones who formed relationships with a childhood sweetheart in high school or if they do break up, are back in a relationship quickly before they get anywhere near a dating site. The women I know anecdotally who are single either have mental health issues that they will openly admit or are proactively never going to date again, usually because they are fixated on the positive aspects of an ex who no other man could ever best, never mind emulate or are too old and can't be bothered with it.
The current state of the dating market is grim for the average man and if you're below average and have any single deficiency such as being unattractive, out of shape, poor, lack of relationship experience (pre-selection) when you are older, speech impediment, neuroatypical condition, are not independent, unstable career prospects and so forth, all it takes is one single characteristic to be rejected and you may as well not bother. The hit on self-esteem and your mental being is not worth it. A lot of these things are genetic - within your DNA - and can't be improved by "just lift bro", "just touch grass bro" and "just shoot your shot bro" as coaches, gurus and evolutionary psychologists like to spout ad nauseam.
When I met my wife she had no domestic skills at all. Like most boomers, her parents taught her that women doing household chores was a form of abuse.
Nevertheless, I have trained her into a good wife and mother, making three family meals a day and keeping a house. It was pretty much like potty training, but still doable. I did this because I wanted kids and a proper family, and I wasn't going to leave it up to chance.
But don't blame guys who refuse to bother. It sucks and it's hard work. Women are being squandered by society and filled with false premises of their aptitudes and values, and it's going to be generations to fix it.
Like most boomers, her parents taught her that women doing household chores was a form of abuse...Nevertheless, I have trained her into a good wife and mother
Hear hear. I'm convinced that the vast majority are simply evil, just like the troons. The real mind fuck is finding the rare one who isn't (unsurprisingly they're always taken) and not allowing your mind to trick you into trying to win the lottery.
I think I have only met two girls that were truly good and decent people worthy of marriage.
Both of them had extremely rare 10/10 personalities, they had no social media and they were also physically attractive(7/10). Of course both of them were already married to decent men.
I think marriage is a scam and I have no plans on ever getting married.
The only exceptions to this rule are if I was marrying one of these two girls I mentioned above.
Both of them had the full package: they had actual critical thinking skills, they knew how to cook and clean, were genuinely caring about other people, have a soft feminine nature, they actually listened more than they talked, were great with kids and also were physically attractive.
I have graduated from college, went to grad school and also worked in academia and worked in private industry for years and have met thousands of women and I can say only two were actually worthy of marrying.
What a fucking nightmare we live in.
The women who are truly good are usually the ones who formed relationships with a childhood sweetheart in high school or if they do break up, are back in a relationship quickly before they get anywhere near a dating site. The women I know anecdotally who are single either have mental health issues that they will openly admit or are proactively never going to date again, usually because they are fixated on the positive aspects of an ex who no other man could ever best, never mind emulate or are too old and can't be bothered with it.
The current state of the dating market is grim for the average man and if you're below average and have any single deficiency such as being unattractive, out of shape, poor, lack of relationship experience (pre-selection) when you are older, speech impediment, neuroatypical condition, are not independent, unstable career prospects and so forth, all it takes is one single characteristic to be rejected and you may as well not bother. The hit on self-esteem and your mental being is not worth it. A lot of these things are genetic - within your DNA - and can't be improved by "just lift bro", "just touch grass bro" and "just shoot your shot bro" as coaches, gurus and evolutionary psychologists like to spout ad nauseam.
When I met my wife she had no domestic skills at all. Like most boomers, her parents taught her that women doing household chores was a form of abuse.
Nevertheless, I have trained her into a good wife and mother, making three family meals a day and keeping a house. It was pretty much like potty training, but still doable. I did this because I wanted kids and a proper family, and I wasn't going to leave it up to chance.
But don't blame guys who refuse to bother. It sucks and it's hard work. Women are being squandered by society and filled with false premises of their aptitudes and values, and it's going to be generations to fix it.
Your family gatherings must be a riot.