I disagree that it's irrelevant because most women do not have this:
legion of thuggish boyfriends with an unbroken chain of broken hoes can attest to.
Plenty of former boyfriends who are never coming back, and plenty of women who haven't had more than a couple sexual partners in a year. That's not so common at 20, but it's a lot more common at 30.
You already having those qualities just makes it a bonus.
IMO, I think you might have the causation backwards. It's those qualities that are causing the tingling.
It doesn't matter if "most" don't have it. What matters is that its a successful enough character to not have considerable trouble keeping a relationship.
Which means that you don't need to go above and beyond with things like "security" and "valued." Making them irrelevant for someone who simply wishes to boil women down to the most basic of bases.
IMO, I think you might have the causation backwards.
Disagree. Because you can literally see it happening in abusive relationships in real time as they begin to change reality itself to turn a man's faults into positives. And "abusive" relationships are only that way because they go somewhat over the line with qualities those women were attracted to in the first place. An extreme on what they liked at a moderate.
I disagree that it's irrelevant because most women do not have this:
Plenty of former boyfriends who are never coming back, and plenty of women who haven't had more than a couple sexual partners in a year. That's not so common at 20, but it's a lot more common at 30.
IMO, I think you might have the causation backwards. It's those qualities that are causing the tingling.
It doesn't matter if "most" don't have it. What matters is that its a successful enough character to not have considerable trouble keeping a relationship.
Which means that you don't need to go above and beyond with things like "security" and "valued." Making them irrelevant for someone who simply wishes to boil women down to the most basic of bases.
Disagree. Because you can literally see it happening in abusive relationships in real time as they begin to change reality itself to turn a man's faults into positives. And "abusive" relationships are only that way because they go somewhat over the line with qualities those women were attracted to in the first place. An extreme on what they liked at a moderate.