It doesn't matter if "most" don't have it. What matters is that its a successful enough character to not have considerable trouble keeping a relationship.
Which means that you don't need to go above and beyond with things like "security" and "valued." Making them irrelevant for someone who simply wishes to boil women down to the most basic of bases.
IMO, I think you might have the causation backwards.
Disagree. Because you can literally see it happening in abusive relationships in real time as they begin to change reality itself to turn a man's faults into positives. And "abusive" relationships are only that way because they go somewhat over the line with qualities those women were attracted to in the first place. An extreme on what they liked at a moderate.
It doesn't matter if "most" don't have it. What matters is that its a successful enough character to not have considerable trouble keeping a relationship.
Which means that you don't need to go above and beyond with things like "security" and "valued." Making them irrelevant for someone who simply wishes to boil women down to the most basic of bases.
Disagree. Because you can literally see it happening in abusive relationships in real time as they begin to change reality itself to turn a man's faults into positives. And "abusive" relationships are only that way because they go somewhat over the line with qualities those women were attracted to in the first place. An extreme on what they liked at a moderate.