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Oh but it's totally the responsibility of the basement-dwelling porn-addicted man-children to get off their fat asses and go ask women out. Their fear of interacting with women in any social situation just makes them a bunch of pussies. They need to man up and get out there. The dating market and social norms haven't changed since I was their age. They're just faggots for not chasing pussy or trying to start families.
-Boomer tradcucks.
Speaking as a Gen X married with multiple children, I think you misunderstand the sentiment. Not surprising given that boomers are atrocious communicators and couldn't sell ice water in hell.
There are decent women out there. There are even exceptional women out there. I'm married to a based bombshell who cooks like a pro because she is one, and the first words I ever heard her say was "gas the trannies.".
But they aren't going to fall into your lap. Same thing for any ladies listening. You aren't going to find a pureblood man without looking. Finding a worthy mate means going out of your comfort zone and putting work in.
That's the idea. If you want a woman go get one. Bitching doesn't fix problems.
Once again, it's not that simple. The reason I left the above comment in this thread is that this poster, and the sentiment behind it, perfectly encapsulate the absolute minefield that modern dating and social norms have become for men. Especially young men.
I'm sure most of the gaming-addicted, porn-addicted young men who spend their time alone, alienated and isolated would absolutely prefer to be able to be in a healthy relationship, and wouldn't even mind risking a few rejections in order to find one, but as this poster clearly illustrates, that is not all they're risking.
Is it worth risking your job, your reputation, your freedom or whatever friendships you might currently have in order to put yourself out there, when any woman you do ask out might accuse you of sexual assault for just having the nerve to speak to her? Secure, when she does so, in the knowledge that she can ruin a man's life with complete impunity because the previous generations of men were such a collection of spineless, simping cowards that they offered up no resistance or pushback as feminism conquered every institution in our society.
Sure it's a minefield. Life is a minefield.
As for women, that's a matter of doing your research and looking in the right places. Bars, clubs, work? All bad choices.
Apparently so is the bus. So is the sidewalk. So are dating apps, if you are in any category other than the best-looking and highest achievers. Doesn't leave much.
I agree with you on another of things but it's 1 in 10000 and even then you actually have to have matching life goals to make it work. Dating today is a travesty that you can't quite get if you haven't experienced it
Oh I certainly agree that the ratio of decent women is pretty low. There isn't someone out there for everybody. But not looking is a guaranteed loss. I for one didn't like that, so I went out and got to looking.
As for the modern dating scene I've been in as recently as the last few years. My wife and I only got together a few years ago.
Women now want to flirt and then maybe have sex. Dating and marriage is for "later" when they're "adults." Combined with the shit I've seen in my personal and professional life I'm probably going to die single