It’s not funny, it’s just… Horrible. Elitist, classist, sexist, just… Rank. Heckling (by some autistic bloke who actually works here), and just… So bad.
I got convinced to go to this thing. It’s like, as local as you could get, for me, but yeah…
Dunno if comedy is like this where you live, but man, in this “hipster bar”, dear god there is no way this was worth the cover charge.
Eugh…
You need to get Chad-pilled.
You shouldn't have ever contacted her again after that display. You probably feel shitty and are reaching out in the hopes she will make you feel better somehow, but she already proved to you she's a piece of shit. One thing you have to realize about dating is that dating is like a war, and that girl is the enemy. You are trying to conquer her just as she is trying to conquer you. Her win condition is an ego boost, yours is to coom.
She's young and ripe to get fucked by any dude. You wanted to take a crack at her and she knew it. She was the one in the power position. If you want to date younger girls like that, you need to be as anti-thirst as possible. Girls like that lose all respect when they thirst bait dudes and it works.
Anyway the best thing you can do to be successful with women is:
Don't give a fuck, truly. There's a voice in your head making you exhibit thirst. Silence it. The less you care, the easier the pussy gets.
Make yourself passively high value. Usually this means the gym, which is obvious, but it also means being good at socializing. A lot of PUA stuff on this topic is true because it's obviously correct. The whole game comes down to a woman assessing if you are higher or lower value than her. If she assesses you higher, she will be easy. So your whole game plan should be to maximize your own value, real and perceived. Women use things like confidence, thirst, and other things as a marker for your value as a man. Horny men are seen as losers because any true Chad would be sexually satisfied already. Confident men are winners, and the most confident move of all is to subtly look down on her without being a jerk about it.
There are endless traps that guys fall into because they don't realize that all dating of women under 30 is all a mindfuck game, and the younger and hotter the women get, the more of a game it becomes. That game is being played whether you agree to play it or not, you'll just end up on the losing side.
So basically dont give a fuck and treat them like crap.
it's more like "treat the girl like you're better than her, and like you're doing her a favor by spending time with her, but don't be overt enough about it for her to get offended."
this is generally for dealing with young/hot/insecure girls who let their emotions think for them.
Honestly, I did kind of do that, at least at the time…
Like I said, I expected a date. Not to turn up and find her there with her “mates”…
This is, I admit, a failure of communication.
Now, upon reaching that point, I decided to be “the bigger man” and just stick it out for as long as I could manage.
I only left because the comedy was terrible, the crowd were getting pretty tense, and if I hadn’t - I would have been stuck with a $30+ cab ride home (last bus), for no good/compelling reason…
I actually think I did ok, all things considered.
Like I said, she and I clearly wanted different things out of the situation. That’s ok. We just needed to… Clarify that upfront, I guess.
Her mates (both my age. ~5 years older than her) were total dicks to me, though. Like, to the point of being aggressively rude. That didn’t “upset” me, so much as it just… Pissed me off. No one deserves to be treated like that. Regardless of what, exactly, girl with a cartoon character name was thinking…
Oh well. At least it got me out of the house. That, honestly, is enough for me.
were her 2 friends men or women?
Everything he said was 100% true whether he’s personally succeeding or not.
Does truth hurt? Simp.
I’m not quite sure what I would get out of telling people here that I basically got rejected, if I was lying…
I mean dude, dude… No one is going to “make up” a story this elaborate, to “farm karma”. Not even a schizo. Only to then make it clear that she decided she was not interested.
I got asked once. Once. This is not something that occurs to me very often. I’m not exactly “bragging”…
Fucking hell…
Right. Well it didn’t come across that way.
But thanks for clarifying.
Clearly, I didn’t make (any of) this up. I’m not quite that pathetic.
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLL seethe dicklet. Nobody asked your opinion. 100% of the people who get triggered hard like you just did, are losers who can't get laid.
It’s kind of sad, tbh…
Peak Reddit-like moment.
For me to lie about this shit..?
Christ, who has the energy and desperation to put in that much effort!
It’s not like I even claimed to have succeeded, ahaha…
This place, sometimes, hey?
I might not agree with his assessment of the situation, on the whole (the last bit), but uhh… You really need to calm down, dude. Seriously…
This is… Not exactly “helpful”, either.