Successful men do not want their relationships to be a challenge.
That's simply untrue. The most successful people are those who thrive upon challenge.
For a number of years I was casually dating someone that I found both extremely attractive (solid 11/10) and personally very interesting. The deal breaker for me was that she would make excuses for every bad habit that I had, trying to make life as easy as absolutely possible for me. I need someone who will encourage my best qualities, and discourage my worst, so that our relationship can help me grow to become a better person. I need someone who can challenge me.
It's perfectly fine if that's not the kind of person you're interested in, there are vastly more women around who won't challenge you. Don't go around insisting that someone must want to date people like you in order to be a good person though.
Same, something innocuous too like forgetting to take out the trash that she subtly left in its usual place but open.... somehow signalling that it’s ready for removal.... I’m not gonna see the signal if I’m never in the kitchen now am I???
My father taught me that when looking for a partner, try to find a woman that YOU find attractive, not a woman that everyone finds attractive. The reason why is that women that have always had the attention of all men all the time are high maintenance and will drop you like an empty pack of zanex for someone they find more attractive
I realized as I got older, how much of it is make up and hair too. Is "the girl" really worth it from that perspective, when she is only that, because she never goes without doing herself up every day.
Oh for sure, which is why you should never trust a woman who doesn’t take off her makeup in front of you. If a woman can’t even be THAT honest with you then it isn’t worth it
I think she's seeing a real issue, but missing the mark when she assumes it's a men issue.
We absolutely have a very real socialization problem right now. There is no real road map for anyone regarding how we should be treating each other, and that's not an easy thing for anyone to navigate entirely on their own.
Even worse though, is that there are widespread influences encouraging us to take a hostile stance towards others (just look at the other comments in this thread). Communication with your partner is the foundation of a healthy relationship, but you must also be careful that you don't spend too much time engaging with Internet content that is detrimental to your relationship. How much time you spend with any given set of information will impact how important that becomes to forming your personality, and as more people spend more time online the Internet is taking over many people's personal development.
TL;DR: Spend more time with your partner, less time online. If you want a healthy relationship, your partner must be the most important influence in your life.
Edit: Here is the link to the actual video. Please watch the entire thing with an open mind and consider the actual substance to what she's saying, because she really does touch on important points.
I downvoted everyone who was talking smack instead of talking about issues. That it happened to be everyone else who had commented was just coincidence.
You're talking like a communist, as if "women" are some politically homogeneous group rather than treating them as individuals, each with their own unique personalities and ideals.
You complain about others being hateful, yet you express nothing but contempt for everyone.
If you meet an asshole in the morning, you've met an asshole, but if you meet assholes all day long, you might be the asshole.
Just learn to ignore him. He's right on a few things, but he's also absolutely psychotic. There's no real value to be had from engaging with him. He's a broken shell of a person.
What did she do? I know she came back, but she's practically irrelevant since Loomer got the attention for the anti-Islam comments and she's still active.
I think women are just more likely to want attention, so the moderately attractive ones get put on a pedestal by simps no matter what side they claim to be on. There's a huge space open for conservative women, so they tend to take it.
You all bemoan the destruction of traditional society, yet as soon as someone suggests that perhaps you ought to start behaving more like traditional men you cry bloody murder.
You've already adopted a loser mentality by blaming other people for your actions. Forget about what other people say and make the kind of world you want to live in, like a real man.
"I'm an attractive woman and when I act like a bitch in a relationship they leave."
That's simply untrue. The most successful people are those who thrive upon challenge.
For a number of years I was casually dating someone that I found both extremely attractive (solid 11/10) and personally very interesting. The deal breaker for me was that she would make excuses for every bad habit that I had, trying to make life as easy as absolutely possible for me. I need someone who will encourage my best qualities, and discourage my worst, so that our relationship can help me grow to become a better person. I need someone who can challenge me.
It's perfectly fine if that's not the kind of person you're interested in, there are vastly more women around who won't challenge you. Don't go around insisting that someone must want to date people like you in order to be a good person though.
I'll bite.
Which of the ideas that she presented do you find to be unreasonable challenges?
Same, something innocuous too like forgetting to take out the trash that she subtly left in its usual place but open.... somehow signalling that it’s ready for removal.... I’m not gonna see the signal if I’m never in the kitchen now am I???
Why cant women just ask?
Nail on the fucking head
My father taught me that when looking for a partner, try to find a woman that YOU find attractive, not a woman that everyone finds attractive. The reason why is that women that have always had the attention of all men all the time are high maintenance and will drop you like an empty pack of zanex for someone they find more attractive
I realized as I got older, how much of it is make up and hair too. Is "the girl" really worth it from that perspective, when she is only that, because she never goes without doing herself up every day.
Oh for sure, which is why you should never trust a woman who doesn’t take off her makeup in front of you. If a woman can’t even be THAT honest with you then it isn’t worth it
When I was school age I ignored other girls completely, because it hadn't fully occurred to me the tricks the every day made up ones were playing.
I think she's seeing a real issue, but missing the mark when she assumes it's a men issue.
We absolutely have a very real socialization problem right now. There is no real road map for anyone regarding how we should be treating each other, and that's not an easy thing for anyone to navigate entirely on their own.
Even worse though, is that there are widespread influences encouraging us to take a hostile stance towards others (just look at the other comments in this thread). Communication with your partner is the foundation of a healthy relationship, but you must also be careful that you don't spend too much time engaging with Internet content that is detrimental to your relationship. How much time you spend with any given set of information will impact how important that becomes to forming your personality, and as more people spend more time online the Internet is taking over many people's personal development.
TL;DR: Spend more time with your partner, less time online. If you want a healthy relationship, your partner must be the most important influence in your life.
Edit: Here is the link to the actual video. Please watch the entire thing with an open mind and consider the actual substance to what she's saying, because she really does touch on important points.
I downvoted everyone who was talking smack instead of talking about issues. That it happened to be everyone else who had commented was just coincidence.
You're talking like a communist, as if "women" are some politically homogeneous group rather than treating them as individuals, each with their own unique personalities and ideals.
You complain about others being hateful, yet you express nothing but contempt for everyone.
Just learn to ignore him. He's right on a few things, but he's also absolutely psychotic. There's no real value to be had from engaging with him. He's a broken shell of a person.
She is hitting the wall that's whats happening
”No Eggs, empty egg carton, you don’t have any eggs”
Really? Someone DIDN'T expect that from Tomi Lahren? She must be new here.
Southern is already full woke. She just has some grudges to righteously pursue.
What did she do? I know she came back, but she's practically irrelevant since Loomer got the attention for the anti-Islam comments and she's still active.
She's talking like a leftist now. Her idea of sane conversation is the right surrendering.
I wouldn't be surprised. She would hook up with shoeonhead and her fat boyfriend back in the day.
I think women are just more likely to want attention, so the moderately attractive ones get put on a pedestal by simps no matter what side they claim to be on. There's a huge space open for conservative women, so they tend to take it.
She’s already claimed she’s a centrist now upon her return... god I hope this doesn’t happen to Brittany too
It was kinda logical when she said "1. Be single". Like sure... it's reasonable to be upset when you learn the man hitting on you is not single.
And then like "make plans". Nothing too complicated.
But then it went full femcel when she started ranting about how men don't value women "with something going on" and just want pretty 21 year olds.
Edit: Referring to the full video, which I managed to find here http://www.tehfalloutshelter.com/showthread.php?105412-%E2%80%98A-Lot-Of-Men-Are-Trash%E2%80%99-Tomi-Lahren-Posts-14-Minute-%E2%80%98PSA-For-Boyish-Men%E2%80%99
You all bemoan the destruction of traditional society, yet as soon as someone suggests that perhaps you ought to start behaving more like traditional men you cry bloody murder.
You've already adopted a loser mentality by blaming other people for your actions. Forget about what other people say and make the kind of world you want to live in, like a real man.