Normal people figure out that, at some point, you have to do things yourself. You have to get up, grab the car keys, talk to people, and go somewhere to get what you need.

I always try and it doesn't work.

Please don’t keep repeating this lie. You and I both know you do not try. You do not go out, and you do not make conversation with people.

I do and it just doesn't work.

Please don’t keep repeating this lie. You and I both know you do not try. You do not go out, and you do not make conversation with people.

Dude, you gotta stop feeling sorry for yourself and actually do something to make your life better.

Take a step back and realize what you do know: that you’re currently unhappy, that nothing you’ve tried has worked with finding a woman, and that finding a woman/having sex is very important to you.

Doing exactly what you’ve been doing isn’t going to work, so you’ve gotta try other stuff if you want your life to change. I don’t know everything you’ve tried, but from your posts you could definitely, 100% benefit from therapy.

Some things I’ll tell you for sure:

• Women (and people in general) can smell desperation. As long as you’re desperate, it’s not going to work out for you, which is why you probably need therapy to work on it. Hell, maybe get a prostitute it all you really need is to have sex and focus on a relationship outside of that quest.
• Find a way to make more money and have a life that you can offer a significant other. I understand disability is tricky and very hard to get to get ahead when that’s what you’re living off of — but if you aren’t a stud, then you can’t coast of your looks and you definitely can’t coast off your personality alone, so you need to offer a potential mate a decent life with you.
• I’ve seen you refer to women as whores and sluts. Stop that shit. Women won’t want to be with a man who hates women, and you may need to work that out through therapy.
• Work on your looks, including going to the gym, hygiene, new clothes, maybe even dental work.
• Have hobbies that YOU enjoy. A lot of women love when guys are passionate about something, even if it’s not something they’re into.
• If you’re saying where you are has NO women (sounds like a very small town), work on finding a way out of where you are at least temporarily. Sounds like you have to first make more money, but then move to a city or medium-sized town.
• Don’t expect some rando online to give you the advice you’ll need to fix your life (myself included). You’ve gotta figure it out yourself, usually through trial and error. We all either have or are on that journey.
• Remember that the world doesn’t owe you shit. If you want more than what you currently have, it’s on you to make it happen. Yes, some people are luckier (born better looking, richer, etc.), but being bitter at them or your situation will NOT help you find someone.
• Get offline and touch some grass.