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There's even a horrible phrase I've heard from the BDSM community, 'false doms'
They are sadist who pretend to be doms to hurt genuine subs for just their own pleasure, not caring of the sub or the mental issues that could cause.
It's strikingly similar to trannies that try to trick straight guys.
That could easily just describe regular abusive Doms who have no idea wtf they are doing because they are probably using 50 Shades as an instruction manual.
Yeah, when the entire culture became more overt it was nothing more than an increase in potential victims for them across many more isolated groups. So they can do what they do and change circles more easily.
They need to be strung up by their intestines.
"False doms" are, generally speaking, still dominant. They're just abusive. So the name really is some mollycoddling of language. A "real" false dom would be a switch or a full service bottom who through happenchance managed to get into a longterm relationship with someone more submissive than themselves that they're trying to satisfy by acting dominant for them, but don't actually wish to be the dominant party all the time.
Language matters, and even in niche fetish conduct, they STILL attempt to subvert it. Oh, they're not abusive, there's no need to report them, they're just a false dom, it's an identity crisis, not an abuse case!