You can read a book or listen to someone read something from the 1800s and there will be words you're not familiar with, but there's enough context that you can infer the meaning.
Scrolling through black people twitter (also gen z'ers because their slang is ebonic ghetto speak), it's constant speaking in what amounts to code.
Inference doesn't help, context doesn't help.
Heck, even looking it up doesn't really help half the time.
I've looked up the definition of "based" many times and still couldn't give you a good definition of it, which is why it's this catch all term that leftists use too. Because it doesn't mean anything.
There's always been slang in every generation that older people go "huh"
But basically an 80s teen could communicate with a an old person no problem even if the old person doesn't know what radical or tubular means.
With ebonics, it's much closer to a foreign language than mere slang.
I feel like if I encountered the term radical if twitter was around in the 80s, it would take me all of 30 seconds to infer the meaning....oh they say this whenever they see something really impressive....ok radical = impressive
But you go through black twitter and the worst inclined aspects of Gen z twitter and context and inference will not help you.
Again that's more the experience of stumbling upon Japanese twitter. You can stare at those Japanese letters all day long and you won't be able to pick up the meaning.
So yeah, when people call themselves black, and rarely ever identify as American, or have essentially a foreign identity, and speak a foreign language essentially, they're kind of like foreigners.
Yes. They don't use secret vocabulary, they're very openly terrible people.
So you're one of those who deny that women will say "yes that's what I want" when they really mean "if you do that, I will hate you forever...and me saying yes is a test to see if you know me well enough to know what I actually want from you"
Aka the "s*** testing"
Odd that you deny that in this particular scenario. Even people who aren't particularly ideological one way or another recogonize this ia a common trait for women. It was typical joke fodder for sitcoms it's such a well known thing.
And yet you deny it in this particular instance because you HAVE TO BE RIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING IN ALL SCENARIOS!!!
If a scenario was different and my post was talking about how women and men can communicate easily with each other, you'd say "women only say what's convenient to say for them to achieve their means at any given moment" or "are highly manipulative and will say A when they mean B in order to trap men in something", things I wouldn't necessarily disagree with you on, though we'd differ on the extreme.
The only reason you responded the way you did in this scenario is because you recogonized it would trap you and make you look bad.
So the question is, why do you feel you need to be right about everything on every topic? What's going on there?
I'm not being mean or insincere, there's something where you're not happy, or troubled beyond what is typical in this modern hellscape. I want you to be happier.
This place aint like Reddit where if you annoy someone, you're a "cast off" forever.
I think I speak for everyone here when I say I'd actually want you to do better and be happier and if you changed to be a little more agreeable, people would accept you.
I make comments supporting Jews and when I do that, people call me a retard. I don't care, I believe what I believe.
Then I make posts where people agree and they say "good point".
That's what's nice about the community here is it's not a popularity contest...they judge you based on exactly what you're saying at the moment.
You feel like you've dug a hole for yourself, but you haven't. In most other places on the internet, that would be true.
Most of us here wouldn't have any hostility to you if you dropped the hostility to every post every person makes...we're not grudge keeping scorned women who hang what someone used to be like over their head forever.
You're a nice man but you're wasting your effort on him. He lost too much heart by paying too much attention to ugliness of this world. Only he can bring himself back.
The irony of it all is that it'll actualy take a sensible woman.
Yes, imp is female.
The women who act like this, in my experience, are quite easy to disarm. They’re essentially a non-factor. If a woman says to me “yes that’s what I want,” and I take that at face value, and now suddenly she “hates me forever,” then I say good riddance!
Oh you hate me? Great, I’ll go over here and you can stay far away since you hate me so much. Now instead I’m spending time with better people who are more honest and communicative with their feelings.
In other words: who cares about women who speak this way?