As a father with an adopted kid, let me just say the level of BS at every level is insane. Then we found out our kid had DMDD. We actually had people holding us back from adopting him because he was acting up, and that we weren't yelling at him enough.
I knew a completely normal family that was trying to adopt. Besides the monthly inspections, audits, credit checks, and other nonsense, one thing that stuck with me was that the house needed fire evacuation instructions
They got him a haircut, it looked terrible but we couldn't explain why to them. His bio mom was Mexican, but his bio dad was German so he has thick dark hair. The haircut was for someone with thinner hair. In their minds, Hispanic Trump's the rest of his heritage.
As a father with an adopted kid, let me just say the level of BS at every level is insane. Then we found out our kid had DMDD. We actually had people holding us back from adopting him because he was acting up, and that we weren't yelling at him enough.
I knew a completely normal family that was trying to adopt. Besides the monthly inspections, audits, credit checks, and other nonsense, one thing that stuck with me was that the house needed fire evacuation instructions
... that needed to be close to the floor
... so that the baby could read them.
They got him a haircut, it looked terrible but we couldn't explain why to them. His bio mom was Mexican, but his bio dad was German so he has thick dark hair. The haircut was for someone with thinner hair. In their minds, Hispanic Trump's the rest of his heritage.