I’m proof that you can, because I make more money and have more time off to spend with my kids. During my younger days I had neither time nor money because I was always working.
You’ll still have kids at 40+, just fewer of them, and you have established a life you can provide well for them.
Its certainly possible, but its also unlikely. Most men are not going to be making more money while also working less as they age, one hopefully but not quite both. We live in clown world, where those types of jobs and careers aren't as plentiful and available to the average white guy.
During my younger years I also lacked money and time, but I made up for it with energy and resilience. Which is my point with age. I could come home after a 10 hour shift, beat up my kids for fun, sleep sporadically with a newborn and still be fully recovered with just one night on the weekend of sleeping in.
Now I am far less able to do that, and most men will cross this same bridge. You will throw a lot more footballs with the son you have in your 20s than the one in your 40s, no matter if you have the time or not.
You can still have them, but that's not the ideal choice and it has costs. Just as it does when women try to argue the same logic on their in.
just fewer of them
Considering we are in a birth rate plummet and demographic crisis, having fewer is a major problem itself on a communal and nation wide level. Even if you ignore every other point you and I can make on the topic, simply having less of them because you are waiting too long is a major issue.
I’m proof that you can, because I make more money and have more time off to spend with my kids. During my younger days I had neither time nor money because I was always working.
You’ll still have kids at 40+, just fewer of them, and you have established a life you can provide well for them.
Its certainly possible, but its also unlikely. Most men are not going to be making more money while also working less as they age, one hopefully but not quite both. We live in clown world, where those types of jobs and careers aren't as plentiful and available to the average white guy.
During my younger years I also lacked money and time, but I made up for it with energy and resilience. Which is my point with age. I could come home after a 10 hour shift, beat up my kids for fun, sleep sporadically with a newborn and still be fully recovered with just one night on the weekend of sleeping in.
Now I am far less able to do that, and most men will cross this same bridge. You will throw a lot more footballs with the son you have in your 20s than the one in your 40s, no matter if you have the time or not.
You can still have them, but that's not the ideal choice and it has costs. Just as it does when women try to argue the same logic on their in.
Considering we are in a birth rate plummet and demographic crisis, having fewer is a major problem itself on a communal and nation wide level. Even if you ignore every other point you and I can make on the topic, simply having less of them because you are waiting too long is a major issue.