Yeah they want to recreate the experience of a raiding warband taking the best women and sleeping with them by force. That's why they will pick abusive men, get upset with "nice guys", and constantly aggravate men into lashing out against them. They're just not honest about it, or don't even have the awareness that this is what they really want.
Yeah an ex was into that shit. I played along just to be a good lover and it was like pulling teeth to get on the same page about safe words and such. It wasnt a sexy conversation to have but it's not like she was risking long term prison sentences when her mind reading abilities fail her just once.
All it takes is one time you were a little too into it and she, with zero signaling that differed from the usual fake resistance act, was "feeling uncomfortable and unsafe"
It's not as hot if the guy knows you want it. So they have to dive deep into denial once they're exposed.
Yeah they want to recreate the experience of a raiding warband taking the best women and sleeping with them by force. That's why they will pick abusive men, get upset with "nice guys", and constantly aggravate men into lashing out against them. They're just not honest about it, or don't even have the awareness that this is what they really want.
"So, I'm supposed to rape you on the off chance you're into that shit?" -Louis CK
Yeah an ex was into that shit. I played along just to be a good lover and it was like pulling teeth to get on the same page about safe words and such. It wasnt a sexy conversation to have but it's not like she was risking long term prison sentences when her mind reading abilities fail her just once.
All it takes is one time you were a little too into it and she, with zero signaling that differed from the usual fake resistance act, was "feeling uncomfortable and unsafe"