Yeah an ex was into that shit. I played along just to be a good lover and it was like pulling teeth to get on the same page about safe words and such. It wasnt a sexy conversation to have but it's not like she was risking long term prison sentences when her mind reading abilities fail her just once.

All it takes is one time you were a little too into it and she, with zero signaling that differed from the usual fake resistance act, was "feeling uncomfortable and unsafe"