Idk wtf happened but, over the last 15 years or so narcissism has taken over the average female’s mind in every single way, manifesting in an ever-growing list of behavioral, monetary and physical requirements a man has to measure up to if he wants sex or god forbid, a committed relationship that might lead to a family someday. Even if you are successful for awhile hitting those requirements, the moment she feels like you’re trying too hard to keep her happy, or she sees a man who appears to offer a little bit more than you do looks or money wise, she’s already got one foot out the door looking for any excuse she can use to blame you for the failed relationship, so she can avoid any sense of guilt in the aftermath. The most frustrating part of it all is how at no point will she ever spend a single second considering what she brings to the table besides sex and looks, or what she could do to make you more satisfied with the relationship. Yes women have always been a pain in the ass, I’ve been dating them since the 90’s but at least back in those days, they generally put a comparable effort into keeping you as happy as you put into keeping them happy, plus they actually cared to stay fit, and even though pretty much all women under 45 years old had what we consider to be an exceptionally sexy body nowadays, they didn’t all see themselves as perfect tens who deserved the very best men on earth. Whatever is happening with women now is different, this extremely delusional sense of self worth and their entitled mentality borders on mental illness.
Social media was a huge force multiplier, but we’ve been on this course since widespread adoption of birth control, divorce, and women in the work place.
The last controls on hypergamy failed, and then social media happened. Women have always been silly, delusional little bundles of neuroses that would go horizontal for a strange man if he was handsome enough, or dropped enough coin on her table.
But now, there are no controls on women. Religion cannot enforce their chastity, the law cannot enforce their contracts, and families cannot discipline their daughters.
Idk wtf happened but, over the last 15 years or so narcissism has taken over the average female’s mind in every single way, manifesting in an ever-growing list of behavioral, monetary and physical requirements a man has to measure up to if he wants sex or god forbid, a committed relationship that might lead to a family someday. Even if you are successful for awhile hitting those requirements, the moment she feels like you’re trying too hard to keep her happy, or she sees a man who appears to offer a little bit more than you do looks or money wise, she’s already got one foot out the door looking for any excuse she can use to blame you for the failed relationship, so she can avoid any sense of guilt in the aftermath. The most frustrating part of it all is how at no point will she ever spend a single second considering what she brings to the table besides sex and looks, or what she could do to make you more satisfied with the relationship. Yes women have always been a pain in the ass, I’ve been dating them since the 90’s but at least back in those days, they generally put a comparable effort into keeping you as happy as you put into keeping them happy, plus they actually cared to stay fit, and even though pretty much all women under 45 years old had what we consider to be an exceptionally sexy body nowadays, they didn’t all see themselves as perfect tens who deserved the very best men on earth. Whatever is happening with women now is different, this extremely delusional sense of self worth and their entitled mentality borders on mental illness.
Social media happened.
Very much this. Social media is an absolute poison for most people, but for women it seems especially evil.
Social media was a huge force multiplier, but we’ve been on this course since widespread adoption of birth control, divorce, and women in the work place.
The last controls on hypergamy failed, and then social media happened. Women have always been silly, delusional little bundles of neuroses that would go horizontal for a strange man if he was handsome enough, or dropped enough coin on her table.
But now, there are no controls on women. Religion cannot enforce their chastity, the law cannot enforce their contracts, and families cannot discipline their daughters.
Well said