In fact, I'd say the trope of a deadbeat dad who abandons his family is more of a white man thing.
The most prominent form of it in my experience (maybe data says otherwise) is black dad/white mom. Where he stays to try and milk all the free shit from everyone rushing to support the mother (a white thing), and then bails once it gets hard and he has to do things beyond show up (a few years in).
White guys have a harder time straight abandoning a family because the government wants their cut and will get that child support, so he isn't as able to just "disappear" fully. Whereas if they put the work in for that with black fathers, it would require a new jail in every town to fill with non-payers.
Black on black breeding is usually as you say, too slutty to confidently name one, so its often just the favorite boyfriend that gets named until he dips for a plethora of reasons.
Yeah most white women i know with black baby daddy's were abandoned by said baby daddy. The ones that weren't are A. Married, B. Right wing and C. An incredibly small minority
I've never met one that wasn't. Heck I've never even met one that reached the level to be married in the first place.
The irony being I've met plenty of the opposite, white guy with black (well, always some lightskin mutt) girl. Quite a few healthy and normal families I've met of that pair.
The most prominent form of it in my experience (maybe data says otherwise) is black dad/white mom. Where he stays to try and milk all the free shit from everyone rushing to support the mother (a white thing), and then bails once it gets hard and he has to do things beyond show up (a few years in).
White guys have a harder time straight abandoning a family because the government wants their cut and will get that child support, so he isn't as able to just "disappear" fully. Whereas if they put the work in for that with black fathers, it would require a new jail in every town to fill with non-payers.
Black on black breeding is usually as you say, too slutty to confidently name one, so its often just the favorite boyfriend that gets named until he dips for a plethora of reasons.
Yeah most white women i know with black baby daddy's were abandoned by said baby daddy. The ones that weren't are A. Married, B. Right wing and C. An incredibly small minority
I've never met one that wasn't. Heck I've never even met one that reached the level to be married in the first place.
The irony being I've met plenty of the opposite, white guy with black (well, always some lightskin mutt) girl. Quite a few healthy and normal families I've met of that pair.