The female ones saying it have always, ALWAYS faced men who deferred to their sex. "Don't hit a lady" or else "if I lose maybe she'll like me" 😜 but never "Ok girlie, it's time to get serious!"
I have only done this very briefly but when it comes to fighting my desire to win outweighs any desire to go easy on women. And I'm not that good that I can just mess with them.
And fencing is fighting to me which is perhaps why it is not my sport
The female ones saying it have always, ALWAYS faced men who deferred to their sex. "Don't hit a lady" or else "if I lose maybe she'll like me" 😜 but never "Ok girlie, it's time to get serious!"
I have only done this very briefly but when it comes to fighting my desire to win outweighs any desire to go easy on women. And I'm not that good that I can just mess with them.
And fencing is fighting to me which is perhaps why it is not my sport