It’s a good question. The girl’s mom (my blood relative) is genuinely very nice and well-intentioned, but to such a pathological degree that she’d never ever try to cut out any of this bullshit. Probably also doesn’t help that the girl’s dad is an extremely wealthy member of god’s chosen people. Again, he’s a nice guy on a personal level, but just by virtue of who he is and where he comes from, I know the girl is running in circles where she’s been brainwashed to buy into all of this shit.