Children shared rooms but they also used rooms as bedrooms instead of "hang out here all day on my computer/phone" rooms. Its a lot easier to share a room when all you use it for is mostly sleeping and storage, and spend your awake time playing outside or in the more social family rooms.

And women did all of those things because they literally had nothing else to do all day, and needed to earn their keep while staving off the insanity boredom can bring to anyone.

Almost all the things you listed are solutions people take to problems that didn't used to exist. No modern people are willing to live it because they literally can't for the most part and in order to do so they'd have to work 4x as hard for no reason other than to chase some "dream" rather than it being the natural state of things and easy to achieve.

Also the overlap between Starbucks and 6 Streaming subs as well as "dreams of the Leave it to Beaver life" is probably pretty small, so why would you even suspect one to want the other.