I'm not seeing where you claim he's wrong, or why it has to be his "obsession with online gender wars" instead of just a plain observation or opinion anyone could make. I can't even begin to understand the psychology of people who use "incel" though, so I wouldn't worry too much about what they might think of this forum.
He's wrong because it's: not a candid photo, not intended to be appealing, and doesn't really show any severe signs of aging (if you look past the garish makeup). To pull out "the wall" in response to this image is an indicator of what's on your mind, not what's in the image.
I'm not seeing where you claim he's wrong, or why it has to be his "obsession with online gender wars" instead of just a plain observation or opinion anyone could make. I can't even begin to understand the psychology of people who use "incel" though, so I wouldn't worry too much about what they might think of this forum.
He's wrong because it's: not a candid photo, not intended to be appealing, and doesn't really show any severe signs of aging (if you look past the garish makeup). To pull out "the wall" in response to this image is an indicator of what's on your mind, not what's in the image.