And once that rabbit hole starts being gone down we're back to square one with people introducing themselves to others with a whole bunch of categorisation labels that only the knowledgeable of those from within their own communities could differentiate and we're all as ignorant as we ever were - and then there'll be another faction of a group which comes out with their own particular rules and ways to address them and so on and so forth for those silly enough to try and keep up.

I'm in 100% agreement with you. I'm just saddened that it appears that (most) everybody but (most) white people seem to prefer the arrangement where your race is the most important thing about you.