https://rumble.com/v4ng5sr-njf-on-marriage.html
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summary:
- you can't take risks
- you can't trade your comfort for resources toward a greater goal
- women have absolute legal power
- women have no obligations or duties in how they behave
- most of the masculinity exhibited by married men is performative and trivial
- every mechanism to control a wife's behavior is seen as "abuse"
Even knowing all of this, and generally agreeing with it, I still think the costs and sacrifices are worth it as long as you go in for the purposes of having children. Unless you are an incel genius like Isaac Newton or Nikolai Tesla then producing those children and doing your best to impart your values on to them, in spite of everything arrayed against you, is your "greater purpose".
Usually high risk gambles are high reward when they work out, but marriage is a notable exception to that rule. I stand to inherit a $600000 house. I can't risk that being stolen when marriage brings me zero benefit as a man. A man who insists on trying his hand at family life needs to become a passport bro and stay where he found her.
Yep, I'm in the same boat owning a property now I wish it were as simple as an inheritance lol but we got very lucky in the market. I run the very real risk of having my property stolen out from under me if I make the wrong choice and even then I'm wargaming property seizures as a potential scenario with my government. The fact that western women will shame us over marriage and worse the tradcucks and boomers join in just tells you they have no idea of the stakes. I'm not going to make myself homeless just because of some gold digging skank that's in mountains of student debt and is searching around for a sugar daddy after she's been used up by all the chads and tyrones out there which we know is the case, it's not just an incel meme.
My life isn't someone's game, so I'm going to act accordingly and protect my assets that I have. Seems as though I'm definitely not the only one doing this given how much screeching is happening from western women about men staying away from them.
They already announced that they're seizing properties to give to illegals. I know you've talked about leaving the UK depending on the results of the November elections but if I were you I'd bite the bullet now and get the fuck out. I'm fortunate that the place I'm inheriting is in a deep red state. The parasites go elsewhere for better gibs.
Fyi I think I know what you're talking about, they didn't necessarily announce it, they fucked up sending out letters to people it didn't apply to because they were claiming it was an empty property. There is a difference even though I don't put anything past them, Dankula reckoned they were putting out feelers to see how people would react and I agree with that assessment.
I do get where you're coming from, I'm just being realistic, still got projects I want to push out and make money with among other things. I also need to decide what country to shoot for and decisions to be made etc. It does depend on a bunch of factors and one big factor like it or not is going to be the American elections because that's going to shape what geo-politics is going to look like for the next 10+ years assuming Trump has a potential protégé he'll be grooming to take his place after his two terms but I don't know if he's smart enough to think that far ahead.
There's also the big question of what the general population in the UK is going to do and how they'll react to things getting worse if at all.
My family has no notable property, other than their humble homes, so I stand to inherit through my wife, if at all.