Teenage boys: Wow, the entire system of our society is setup against me from every law, to every cultural norm. I'm now even realizing my mother has been sabotaging my development into a man since I was a child and my father was too weak to do anything about it. All I want in life is a loving wife and a job that fully utilizes my potential but women hate me and I'm told the job I want is going to go toward a woman instead of a man because men who existed long before me got to benefit from a patriarchal society that I never grew up in. Any time I try to tell anyone about my problems they spin things around and say that I'm actually the problem while also saying my thoughts on my struggles are offensive to everyone else so instead I learn to bottle everything up inside. Absolutely no one cares to help me. I'm going to kill myself.

Teenage girls: I sent a snapshot where I flashed my tits to the captain of the football team and he shared it with the whole team. Now all the guys and girls at school are calling me a slut. I'm going to kill myself.

They are not the same.