As the other comment brings up porn can lead to unrealistic expectations, maybe not the specific examples given there but just a general trend and frequency that doesn't match real life.
Porn intentionally finds and markets both physical and mental traits that will be outliers on the edge of distribution curves, and it's not just something applicable to women. Male height, body proportions, body hair quality and quantity, performance times, and basically everything else to do with sex/porn will be significantly amplified and tailored to maximise their marketing revenue and the more it gets done the more the exposure cultivates a false perception about how sex will be. Not every guy willtbe able to last 20+ minutes. Conversely not every woman will want that because after long enough you get chafing, other irritation, and feel it more and for longer afterwards. But the consistent runtimes of such material takes root in the minds of some that this must be how all sex is.
And that's before even getting onto kinks and fetishes.
This is true. Still, most men are way less picky than women suggest. The amount of men ruined by porn is very small. It's women who tend to have unrealistic expectations warped by porn.
Women complain about men's "unrealistic" standards due to porn because women get with a guy who already finds them attractive then the guy wants her to try things he's seen on porn. The woman doesn't want to do those things and that creates conflict. The woman then gets made that porn has warped the guys mind because she imagined if he never saw porn he wouldn't want her to do those things.
Women on the other hand will not find a man attractive because he doesn't live up to standards she thinks she can expect because of porn. You'd be shocked at how many young women don't understand men can't instantly get hard and they get mad if he doesn't or can't last or fuck them at super speed nonstop super rough etc... and lots of young men knowing women have these expectations are dropping Cialis and Viagra when they sleep with women because they feel pressured into it. The problem with this though is that women won't give men chances to develop the relationship. If the man doesn't perform as king pornstar from the first time they have sex, she's already done with him (bad sexual compatibility) and she's out hunting for the next pornstar. Young women into porn don't realize the time and effort it truly can take to develop emotional connections and then work on developing some comfortability with the other person such that they can mutually woke on improving the sex. They expect it all from the start. This prevents relationships from developing.
It is exceptionally rare for men to decide not to be with a woman because she didn't perform like a pornstar on day 1. Guys just want to see women who are eager to please men so if he says he wants her to suck his dick and she says sorry, I'm not into that because my pastor said blowjobs are unholy and my feminist friend said blowjobs are demeaning to women, he's going to walk. However porn might lead the guy to developing some odd fetishes but if they aren't crazy, it really shouldn't be outside the realm of something a woman should consider doing for her BF. The fact women get mad at porn because their BF doesn't just want vanilla sex is kind of selfish. At least these men still find the women attractive even if she's not a pornstar unlike the women who have too high of expectations in men now. There's are some outliers where the guys like you have to shit on my face while I wear a diaper or we can't be together which is just fucked but that's a really fucking small minority and guys with those types of niche fetishes can sometimes find women into them too.
Many do, but for completely different reasons.
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As the other comment brings up porn can lead to unrealistic expectations, maybe not the specific examples given there but just a general trend and frequency that doesn't match real life.
Porn intentionally finds and markets both physical and mental traits that will be outliers on the edge of distribution curves, and it's not just something applicable to women. Male height, body proportions, body hair quality and quantity, performance times, and basically everything else to do with sex/porn will be significantly amplified and tailored to maximise their marketing revenue and the more it gets done the more the exposure cultivates a false perception about how sex will be. Not every guy willtbe able to last 20+ minutes. Conversely not every woman will want that because after long enough you get chafing, other irritation, and feel it more and for longer afterwards. But the consistent runtimes of such material takes root in the minds of some that this must be how all sex is.
And that's before even getting onto kinks and fetishes.
This is true. Still, most men are way less picky than women suggest. The amount of men ruined by porn is very small. It's women who tend to have unrealistic expectations warped by porn.
Women complain about men's "unrealistic" standards due to porn because women get with a guy who already finds them attractive then the guy wants her to try things he's seen on porn. The woman doesn't want to do those things and that creates conflict. The woman then gets made that porn has warped the guys mind because she imagined if he never saw porn he wouldn't want her to do those things.
Women on the other hand will not find a man attractive because he doesn't live up to standards she thinks she can expect because of porn. You'd be shocked at how many young women don't understand men can't instantly get hard and they get mad if he doesn't or can't last or fuck them at super speed nonstop super rough etc... and lots of young men knowing women have these expectations are dropping Cialis and Viagra when they sleep with women because they feel pressured into it. The problem with this though is that women won't give men chances to develop the relationship. If the man doesn't perform as king pornstar from the first time they have sex, she's already done with him (bad sexual compatibility) and she's out hunting for the next pornstar. Young women into porn don't realize the time and effort it truly can take to develop emotional connections and then work on developing some comfortability with the other person such that they can mutually woke on improving the sex. They expect it all from the start. This prevents relationships from developing.
It is exceptionally rare for men to decide not to be with a woman because she didn't perform like a pornstar on day 1. Guys just want to see women who are eager to please men so if he says he wants her to suck his dick and she says sorry, I'm not into that because my pastor said blowjobs are unholy and my feminist friend said blowjobs are demeaning to women, he's going to walk. However porn might lead the guy to developing some odd fetishes but if they aren't crazy, it really shouldn't be outside the realm of something a woman should consider doing for her BF. The fact women get mad at porn because their BF doesn't just want vanilla sex is kind of selfish. At least these men still find the women attractive even if she's not a pornstar unlike the women who have too high of expectations in men now. There's are some outliers where the guys like you have to shit on my face while I wear a diaper or we can't be together which is just fucked but that's a really fucking small minority and guys with those types of niche fetishes can sometimes find women into them too.