What really grinds my fucking gears about the conversation around this is right wingers especially take the approach of simping for women and blaming men. As if I'm the fucking problem when I would love to get myself a girlfriend and raise a family with somebody I was attracted to who's nice, my standards are god damn low.
Wargaming furiously on this scenario, one thing that's really struck me when I was going through a dating app to confirm my prejudices is because society has let feminists run amok the community aspect of life has really gone out the window and people are wrong to blame video games and the internet. Even your small hobbyist group in a local community gets infested with troons and feminists making it impossible for men and women to socialise as they once did.
University is filled with hysterical morons who will throw false rape accusations just for looking at them and gyms are very much the same way. I always defer to the gym bros and university students who are going to be the men that won't have as much trouble finding girls to hang out with and attracting them and I bet even in asian countries it's going to start being the same. Especially with South Korea having the usual feminist shit being thrown at it.
What really grinds my fucking gears about the conversation around this is right wingers especially take the approach of simping for women and blaming men.
Meh, that's not really an agreed upon stance. I for instance think that rolling women back to little more than property is probably what it's going to take to fix things rather than pretend things have been fixed. The stop gap measures that are practical are more along the lines of banning women from the internet and destroying all of social media rather than some nonsense of "just be more alpha bro".
How tall are you and how fit is your build Lethn? Not much one can do about height but fitness is an easy 6 month fix. Just make yourself attractive to women as much as you can. Unless you’re seriously disadvantaged in the looks department it’s not hard to stand out with a little effort and grooming. I do NOT earn a lot of money but I’ve never been single for more than a couple of months at a time since my early twenties, and I never message girls on dating sites, I just respond to messages that are sent to me. You just have to present attractively. I’m not even particularly photogenic or outgoing.
lol the problem is so many of them on these profiles are outright scammers or they're the aforementioned low key prostitutes digging for a rich sugar daddy.
I'm about 5.6 so average in height and I practice martial arts so I'm sort of average fitness, slim build. I don't ever expect women to be going gaga over me because I'm not delusional or anything. Just trust me when I point out as others have these apps are completely retarded. I have to wonder if a lot of guys are being retarded and don't even know they're replying to scam profiles half the time because I can sniff that shit out. I got some blonde that liked me on hinge and it was obviously some black african trying to scam because he used some weird Jamaican slang I had never heard of before. Probably got spooked because I pointed out in my profile that I study AI and was all "Fuck this guy's going to be on to me fast" LOL. Uninstalled the app after that because it confirmed my prejudices that nothing's changed.
The joke is I don't have much trouble talking to women RL believe it or not when I feel like socialising and I've known some online. It's just like a lot of average guys I'm completely fucking invisible. This isn't a poor me situation or anything but I feel like in particular I just do not fucking gel with British women and I bet people might even notice that if they hung out with me. The women I have talked to or chatted with in the past just generally have always been foreigners, that's a bit of a hilarious thing about me.
This is why the solution for me is to simply go abroad, I know it and I'm not dumb, so I guess I'm learning languages and looking at places I can visit that don't cost an arm and a leg. Unless I have one of the most anime moments ever and just run into a girl by accident here It's not going to happen partly because they're all fucking nuts in my country.
What really grinds my fucking gears about the conversation around this is right wingers especially take the approach of simping for women and blaming men. As if I'm the fucking problem when I would love to get myself a girlfriend and raise a family with somebody I was attracted to who's nice, my standards are god damn low.
Wargaming furiously on this scenario, one thing that's really struck me when I was going through a dating app to confirm my prejudices is because society has let feminists run amok the community aspect of life has really gone out the window and people are wrong to blame video games and the internet. Even your small hobbyist group in a local community gets infested with troons and feminists making it impossible for men and women to socialise as they once did.
University is filled with hysterical morons who will throw false rape accusations just for looking at them and gyms are very much the same way. I always defer to the gym bros and university students who are going to be the men that won't have as much trouble finding girls to hang out with and attracting them and I bet even in asian countries it's going to start being the same. Especially with South Korea having the usual feminist shit being thrown at it.
Meh, that's not really an agreed upon stance. I for instance think that rolling women back to little more than property is probably what it's going to take to fix things rather than pretend things have been fixed. The stop gap measures that are practical are more along the lines of banning women from the internet and destroying all of social media rather than some nonsense of "just be more alpha bro".
No, the modern corpo internet and video games you can blame, but then that is the intended affect.
How tall are you and how fit is your build Lethn? Not much one can do about height but fitness is an easy 6 month fix. Just make yourself attractive to women as much as you can. Unless you’re seriously disadvantaged in the looks department it’s not hard to stand out with a little effort and grooming. I do NOT earn a lot of money but I’ve never been single for more than a couple of months at a time since my early twenties, and I never message girls on dating sites, I just respond to messages that are sent to me. You just have to present attractively. I’m not even particularly photogenic or outgoing.
lol the problem is so many of them on these profiles are outright scammers or they're the aforementioned low key prostitutes digging for a rich sugar daddy.
I'm about 5.6 so average in height and I practice martial arts so I'm sort of average fitness, slim build. I don't ever expect women to be going gaga over me because I'm not delusional or anything. Just trust me when I point out as others have these apps are completely retarded. I have to wonder if a lot of guys are being retarded and don't even know they're replying to scam profiles half the time because I can sniff that shit out. I got some blonde that liked me on hinge and it was obviously some black african trying to scam because he used some weird Jamaican slang I had never heard of before. Probably got spooked because I pointed out in my profile that I study AI and was all "Fuck this guy's going to be on to me fast" LOL. Uninstalled the app after that because it confirmed my prejudices that nothing's changed.
The joke is I don't have much trouble talking to women RL believe it or not when I feel like socialising and I've known some online. It's just like a lot of average guys I'm completely fucking invisible. This isn't a poor me situation or anything but I feel like in particular I just do not fucking gel with British women and I bet people might even notice that if they hung out with me. The women I have talked to or chatted with in the past just generally have always been foreigners, that's a bit of a hilarious thing about me.
This is why the solution for me is to simply go abroad, I know it and I'm not dumb, so I guess I'm learning languages and looking at places I can visit that don't cost an arm and a leg. Unless I have one of the most anime moments ever and just run into a girl by accident here It's not going to happen partly because they're all fucking nuts in my country.
If you go to southeast asia you'll be drowning in pussy, most of which is slim and willowy. I mean as long as you're white. If you're not welll...
Things are super-cheap, and they work really really well.
The people are low-key, so even if you hook up with chicks, you're not going to have wild salsa-dancing nights.
I'm a covid-refugee here, so the sexpat thing isn't my scene -- but come soon, because things are changing really quickly.
Lethn struggles with porn use. As do many of us. Probably his biggest issue with women.
He is British so I'm sure he can find a poor nation woman that would trade box for citizenship.