Oh wait, you already admitted you wouldn't even date the girl yourself (something far easier than dealing with a murderer). So you just want everyone else to do things you won't.
Not at all. I didn't even say that she should be able to get what she's asking for. Since when did this joint get so wrapped up in binary mentalities that saying "man, the consequences she's facing does in fact suck" equate to "she should be absolved of everything she has done"?
So what is the point of your sympathy then if you won't help her, and you don't want other people to? To crow endlessly about how bad we feel for her while doing nothing? Because did you forget this part of what you said:
there should be ways back that don't leave people who legitimately want to change for the better behind in shitty places.
That's not just "man, her consequences suck," don't try to backtrack on it. Its actively calling for a change to the system to give her a way to absolve of her sins.
Not at all. I didn't even say that she should be able to get what she's asking for. Since when did this joint get so wrapped up in binary mentalities that saying "man, the consequences she's facing does in fact suck" equate to "she should be absolved of everything she has done"?
So what is the point of your sympathy then if you won't help her, and you don't want other people to? To crow endlessly about how bad we feel for her while doing nothing? Because did you forget this part of what you said:
That's not just "man, her consequences suck," don't try to backtrack on it. Its actively calling for a change to the system to give her a way to absolve of her sins.