Then program it however you want. That will be the beauty in it. You can do whatever you want with it and get it to do whatever you want for you. It's basically what men tried to get women to be like under a hard patriarchy but couldn't work out the kinks. Futuristic robots will allow us to work out the problems that biological women had so we won't need biological women.
You are mistaken. I, for one, would rather have a star-wars-like robot that cleans and cooks. No need for emotional masturbation.
Then program it however you want. That will be the beauty in it. You can do whatever you want with it and get it to do whatever you want for you. It's basically what men tried to get women to be like under a hard patriarchy but couldn't work out the kinks. Futuristic robots will allow us to work out the problems that biological women had so we won't need biological women.
A lovesick slave might be less interesting in the long term than you think.