I don't care about the law, on this issue or any other. I care about what is right.

If you want to stop under 18 girls from fucking older guys, you need to punish the girls. There is no way around it. The girls aggressively put themselves out there, because there are absolutely no consequences for them. Even if 90% of guys were to reject the girls (which will never be the case), the girls will always push on until they get a "yes". So all these laws do is operate as a "gotcha" against guys who get caught up with these girls. The laws don't actually stop anything at all. Does it really matter if absent the laws, 90% of men would say yes, whereas with the laws, only 40% do?

I've met a number of underage girls who sought out sex from older men. They broadly fit into 2 categories: (1) crazy girls, often impulsive and pleasure seeking types, and (2) ambitious girls who think they're too cool for boys their own age and want older men because older men are more physically developed, mature, and have money. In both cases, the couples are almost never "caught". Almost never with the ambitious girls, because they protect the guys. It sometimes, but still rarely, happens with the crazy girls, because crazy girls are self destructive, unstable, and stupid, so they'll burn the guys on purpose or on accident. Either way, I'd guess that 95% of these underage relationships go completely undetected and unpunished even here in CA.

My 1st girlfriend was 19, and she was quite open about having dated guys in their late 20s and 30s starting when she was 15. She had big tits by age 15 so guys were after her constantly. She was the ambitious type who thought she was better than everyone else.

Christ, what is this crap? Why is this even a thing?

Nymphette is a reference to the most famous book on this: Lolita. From a wiki on it: "The term means "sexually precocious young girl," and was used by Humbert as a way to justify his predatory actions towards Dolores Haze, his victim. a Lolita or nymphet was thought to be a young woman who purposefully pursues and manipulates older men into sexual situations... By around 2014, on tumblr, young women took on this trope for themselves... Tragic love, new sexual experiences, rebellion, drug use, toxic relationships, intense friendships, and self-destructive behaviors are some common motifs."

Oh, and in the book, it is described as: "Now I wish to introduce the following idea. Between the age limits of nine and fourteen there occur maidens who, to certain bewitched travelers, twice or many times older than they, reveal their true nature which is not human, but nymphic (that is, demoniac); and these chosen creatures I propose to designate as 'nymphets.'" In other words, that these little girls are basically succubi and he's not responsible for his lust for them. Imagine the kind of young girl who embraces that image for herself.

In other words, crazy girls seek out older men because they are attracted to what is taboo, and are excited by what is seen as dangerous and risky (especially if it's not dangerous and risky to them, but only for the other person). They love drama. They get bored easily.

One of the biggest lies society tells itself is that these girls don't exist. "all women are good, pure virtuous, wise, and peaceful". Bullshit. Plenty of women out there are straight up psychos. And if you've dated a lot of girls (I have) you will have run into more than your fair share of psycho girls who use lust and sex to exploit and manipulate men. That's why "don't stick your dick in crazy" exists, because dating/fucking these girls usually ends up with them having a "honeymoon" phase trying to get their hooks in, followed by them blowing up on you and going psycho, which can sometimes include false accusations.

I've met and known a number of these crazy girls. None of them started having sex at 18+.