I've heard some stories from people here where you can say that you should feel bad for them, but for men as a class?

I do so because while you can be doing just fine, when you aren't you can be in a downward spiral because the level of support available is minimal to zilch. The world doesn't care, the law doesn't, the women don't. If you can't handle it on the chin your options can be literally nothing.

The classic being if your wife wakes up one day and, because the media has filled her head with greener grass and delusions, just decides to take your kids, house and money. You can try to make it amicable, or even fight back, but one word of "he abused me/us" (doesn't need to be true in the slightest) and that's gone too. Your entire life is now a massive uphill struggle where you have nothing, have to work hard to make something, just so you can pay her to maybe use it on your kids and if you fail to do so its jail time.

That's why I feel bad for many. The Western Man is in a precarious position that can be taken away on a whim with little recourse and leaving only the most strong and able able to sustain its weathering.