No no, it's worse than that. Women have agency sometimes, such as when it works to win them an argument or qualifies them for a right or a privilege. They just suddenly don't have it when it means taking responsibility.

Not to overuse a tired joke but "Schrodinger's competence" perfectly describes feminism's crowning achievement. It might have been the first modern example of doublethink, and it paved the way for the rejection of reality that dominates clown world.