One who cares about their son/brother/husband/father?

They only care in so much as it benefits them in the time. Often the social consequences are the only thing holding them accountable.

Because if they don't, the next step won't be anti-feminism.

If they had the ability to plan ahead, we wouldn't need abortion or suffer under teen pregnancy, or single motherhood, or the numerous other society crumbling issues born entirely of their shortsightedness.